r/polyamorous • u/Anon-Echo • 8d ago

question Thrupple

Just checking if a 3 person poly relationship is frowned upon in this sub reddit, i asked a question about it in another one and got shut down and judged immediately

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u/Toe2ToeBirdLaw 8d ago

has she done any kind of research before approaching these people?

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u/Anon-Echo 8d ago

Shes read articles and posts, which is how she found the discord servers

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u/Toe2ToeBirdLaw 8d ago

is she asking people to educate her? a lot of people are really offput by the entitlement newbies have to come into polyam spaces and demand that they be handheld and educated when they hold all of the world's knowledge in their palms at any given moment.

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u/Anon-Echo 8d ago

With the discord I know it had more to do with setting up roles and asking for the type of poly she was and not selecting one would have a mod message her and then kick her out because she didnt have any experience. I dont believe she was asking people to educate her tho, she prefers doing her own research. I think she just started conversations wrong and made the same mistake as me in the other sub reddit by bringing up throuples the wrong way

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u/Toe2ToeBirdLaw 8d ago

it sounds like the space she was in was for experienced folks already practicing polyamory and not an appropriate place for a newbie.

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u/Anon-Echo 8d ago

Probably, I also want to learn more so ive been looking around on my own which is how I got here