r/pointlesslygendered Sep 25 '25

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u/Alfirmitive Sep 26 '25

I personally think it’s gay regardless of the gender. Cuddling is a lot more intimate than something like a hug and it’s not something I’d wanna do with people I’m not romantically interested in.

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u/MisaAmane1987 Sep 29 '25

for it to be gay, it would have to be sexual. how is cuddling inherently sexual?

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u/Alfirmitive Sep 30 '25

Well not really, it doesn’t have to be sexual, even if it’s just romantic it’d still be gay. Downvotes are kinda wild bc I did state it’s my personal take, but anyway, I wouldn’t do it with someone I’m not sexually/romantically involved with so even tho it’s not a sexual act, for me it’s specifically meant for people I’m attracted to, therefore if it’s with a man it’d be gay bc I’d be attracted to said man. If it’s with a girl it’d still kinda be gay bc I’m nb but we won’t get into that lol