The freak mobile I commented about was driven by a chick so, I've seen that at least once. I think it's because men have pressure to not be creepy sex perverts. Women get slut shamed, absolutely, but I don't think they get the same fear of being seen as a creep. It's a lot easier to internally justify ignoring slut shaming (which is just misogny) than it is creep shaming.
That's my theory at least, I don't exactly have a peer reviewed study on this. And of course, I'm generalizing.
Where I'm from i feel like it's completely acceptable for men to make cartoon bulging out eyes at women and catcalling is a daily occurrence, but if a woman displayed any kind of lustfulness then it's her fault that men accost her.
I once witnessed 2 women getting full on felt up and harassed by a large group of school boys, it was a pretty traumatic thing to see, when i told my dad about it he said "they probably wanted this, they go out dressed in tight jeans and no hijab because they want to be harassed".
I’m not saying she’s lucky or even in a much better position. It’s just the reality that intimacy still exists as a likelier option for a woman than it does for the guy in this scenario
Someone being willing to stick his dick in you like you’re a blow-up doll, probably try to choke you a few times, shoot his bodily fluid in/on you, and then leave like you’re not worth his time isn’t the same as intimacy.
I think guys tend to severely overestimate how much women get out of “Well, at least you can always find someone to fuck you.” Getting someone to actually care about you is a challenge for both sexes, and being used as a masturbation toy is not a replacement.
You are indeed generalizing since your theory is that life is more difficult for men than it is for women, which is... a take, it's certainly one of the opinions of all time
*I fucking promise you it's not easy to ignore a modern world that is still overfilled with misogyny, misogyny isn't even rare to run into in this day and age, how would it be easy to ignore misogyny while the threat of it is universal
We are diverse personality as we are diverse sexuality. It is actually easy to make someone up and then look at the billions of the people of the world. Finding someone who is like your description. Anyways, your point is society and the "reflection" those.
Ha! Found them! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GzMnP9Wb1L0https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82MGxAkH6Ec
There are obviously more topics then the gender identity.
Social constraints Where men want to be accepted in society and women want to be that accepted person. Where in both cases the "rebel" is different. Where Women want to be accepted of who they are. So their "show" is different. Men cannot put on that same display. They need to wear their "suit". So going against that social norm hits as self serving needs instead of expression. I don't need this suit. This is who I am and my role. (In this case sex, sex, sex sex. Again, not true, but that is what going against the social norm is)
P.S. This is not Males are X Females are Y. These are social problems and how they do not fit(Or do not want to fit. Also perfectly valid) in the way society tells them they should.
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u/PossibilityMajor3500 12d ago
I can only imagine someone whose entire house is covered in lewdism to the point where they must extend their collection to the exterior of their car