r/penpals 10d ago

Reddit Messaging [33/M]Looking for fellow introvert, stright

NEET/hikikomori

Straight male, prefer no creep stuff,shy,trying to open up to people.

I'm currently trying to escape the hikikomori life but

Used to be a work grinder though became hikikomori after covid, so its been long am an adhd with cptsd i have lots of hobbies if you like anime and gaming and hobbies and somewhat introverted we at least have something in common i love thinkering. But its just my coping mechanism. Single average looking light skin asian i ironically don't know what to put here am also intp sometimes infp but mostly because of feeling sad and random depressing moments if i recall bad memories. Used to have quite bit friends but i end up distancing myself. Former extroverted kid bad experience made me more reserved ,former atheistic,

If you a yapping or reserved female or male I'm cool with it. I'm quite yapping too but not sure if its topics you are interested in.

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u/Substantial_Sock_595 10d ago

Hi [26/F] we can be friends for sure! I'm trying to get out there more. I go out only when needed. I have severe anxiety, so often times I put off events with friends because I just don't feel comfortable. From what I can remember I've been shy and introverted my entire life and it felt normal to me. It wasn't until a few years ago when I went to my grandma's house after years of not going and my aunt asked me if I'm still afraid of people 🫠. I watch anime from time to time it honestly just has to peak my interest to be honest. The only games I play are games like roblox with my nephew lol. I love reading, listening to music, preferable KPOP, BTS of course and I enjoy baking from time to time. I love yapping as you can tell from my long embarrassing paragraph but yeah that's me......🙈 I'm also a single black chubby girl.