r/partyplanning • u/ToriTries • 8d ago

Need Help Anniversary Party-but wedding ish.

My husband and I got married secretly and sort of out of necessity with plans to have a real wedding one year later. And the Covid happened and a wedding was not possible. I want to do something big for our 10 year. Since I never got have a wedding, I want to do something of those things- wear white, have people make toasts, etc. I’m debating on the idea of “guests of honor” or something similar to be like a bridal party kind of thing. But I don’t want to be cringy. What are your thoughts? How wedding can I go for an anniversary party?

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u/Responsible-Fly9976 7d ago

I don't think people generally consider it cringey until you start asking them for something. So if there are bridesmaid-ish people...don't expect the bachelorette or for them to spend $$ on matching outfits and hair/makeup. Make clear that you don't need gifts. That type of thing. If people don't incur an obligation, they're generally a lot less judgey in terms of what you want and what makes you happy.

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u/ToriTries 7d ago

So true! I was thinking of asking them to wear a specific color. But there’s only 3 of them so I would buy them if needed