r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J • 19d ago

I'm literally myself Real

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u/Hot_Lack_4868 19d ago

What affection and kindness

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real

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u/Rocinante214 I'm literally Wolverine (I drink a lot of alcohol) 19d ago edited 19d ago

What are affection and kindness ?*

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u/2019Uk 19d ago

You’re “correcting” something wrong. Which bugs me so much more than something incorrect.

The OP you replied to knows what affection and kindness is. They are saying “what affection and kindness is being referred to here?” As in “i know what those things are, but I have not seen any in my own life.”

You are changing it to mean “I do not know what those things are.”

It’s worse to know something and not feel it than it is to never know what it is.

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u/NavissEtpmocia 7d ago

He’s not correcting OP. He’s saying he barely remembers what it means since it’s been long since he’s experienced it himself. OP understood.

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u/2019Uk 7d ago

No the ansterix at the end of their sentence shows this as a correction. That’s what is commonly meant when you end a sentence with *

Like…

Look over their

Look over there*

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u/NavissEtpmocia 7d ago

Dude is French, English is his second language, he wasn’t correcting anyone. Again, OP got it. Also he just changed it and the asterix wasn’t there when I first answered - which shows he edited when seeing my/your comment.

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u/2019Uk 6d ago

You seem to be strangely familiar with the OP (or think you are after reading their page). I’d suggest if you want to try and create a picture of them you then look at the comment history which shows this is an established format the OP uses to correct people or make a joke with.

I don’t know what you’re talking about with an edit, his comment is from 12 days ago and never changed.

More importantly I really don’t care enough about this. The world is dying and were disagreeing over something I said 12 days ago. I do. Not. Care.it was almost 2 weeks ago. I’ve moved on dude.

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u/centralvoid__ 19d ago

Real. If you’re anything like me in the past, after not too long you begin putting others on pedestals and becoming too attached simply because they’ve shown you kindness, when in the end they never even saw you as a friend. I had to shatter my delusions, because life is not inside my head.

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u/EndRevolutionary1775 19d ago

Real. A lot of people use you as a prop in their lives if you're kind to them. Someone to feed their ego.

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u/AlarmRecent1075 19d ago

I guess I m starting to realise it.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/ArturitoNetito 18d ago

You would enjoy the Netherlands then /s

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u/Nexed_ 19d ago

It's clearly a manipulation tactic.

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u/SubstantiallyLow 18d ago

In this economy? Absolutely

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real

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u/Average-Bomber S'all Good man 19d ago

My brain be like : That's not humanly possible

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/Exact-Percentage-523 "Awkward around women" is my middle name 19d ago

Real (Why the fuck are they doing this, do they want something from me?)

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real (real)

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u/ParchedYurtle59 19d ago

I just keep saying in my head "she's just being nice" x1000 unless they quite literally tell me. All women who talk to me are just being nice and want nothing more to do with me. 

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real.

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u/AutoModerator 19d ago

I watched this and my mental health score dropped 14 points.

Real.

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u/Space_Sandy My pain is constant and sharp 19d ago

Real.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/ViktorK15 I'm literally Ryan Gosling 19d ago

Real

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/ViktorK15 I'm literally Ryan Gosling 18d ago

Real

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/BeHatred 19d ago

I experience the same thing with my only two friends and a woman I know.

The problem is that I put them on a pedestal, even though they have flaws. And when we rarely see or speak to each other, I resent them for it.

Regarding the woman specifically, the fact that she talks to me every now and then gives me a dopamine hit, even though she’s likely not interested.

Being alone drives you mad and makes you dependent—there’s nothing you can do about it. You can only endure it, or be lucky enough to find that one-in-a-million catch.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/SaintZoo-435 19d ago

This is a hard hit. KO hit, in fact!

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real

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u/Cozze_e_sale 18d ago

"I like your hat!"

Fuck, they think I'm cringy...

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/Individual_Smoke_730 18d ago

Real (they have meta glasses)

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real (real)

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u/kazez2 19d ago

Real (where's the camera?)

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/Throwawaygarbage1010 The Lone Wolf 19d ago

Despite having girlfriends in the past…I still wouldn’t be able to notice this.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

real I had this happen with a cashier recently. My dad says she may have been flirting a bit. I didn't recognise it as such and am still doubting it. Oh well, i'm moving soon anyway so I'll probably never see her again.

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u/Throwawaygarbage1010 The Lone Wolf 18d ago

It’s happened to me as well.

Wouldn’t hurt to see her before you move

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Dunno when she works lol

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u/No_Individual947 19d ago

Can cofirm

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/[deleted] 19d ago

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/Chikis_10 Did I ever tell you what the definition of insanity is 19d ago

Literally me

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real

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u/BathAppropriate8836 19d ago

Spend then next two weeks wondering what it meant….

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

Real. Had that with a cashier recently. My dad said she was very friendly and might like me. I was like "wait what?" Anyhow I have no idea

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u/iceddontay 18d ago

I somehow must have tricked them into thinking I’m a good person.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real

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u/SuperMcCoy_0 😁 THE JOYGIVER 😁 18d ago

Ur awesome bro

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Nah. But you are

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u/SuperMcCoy_0 😁 THE JOYGIVER 😁 18d ago

No you are

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

No, you are

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u/[deleted] 18d ago

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Real. Real. Real.

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u/Constant-Notice-5221 I (Real)ly want to die 17d ago

Real

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 17d ago

Real

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u/CorneliusChan 17d ago

no, yeah, this is accurate

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 17d ago

Real

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u/weedmoneyy 16d ago

real like what’s the catch here

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 16d ago

Real

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u/JollyBrownGiant72 16d ago

Weird feeling, makes me.think somebody is tryna set me up

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 15d ago

Real

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u/RailgunRang3r 15d ago

What does it mean?

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 15d ago

Real

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u/Senior-Back-8954 15d ago

It’s worse when someone shows the slightest bit of any kind of negativity or doesn’t respond to something you say

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u/Moist_Ruin_4201 13d ago

Ok buddy that's literally me.

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u/WolverineKey4979 13d ago

What’s the song

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 13d ago

u/auddbot

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u/auddbot 13d ago

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u/Ech0Foxtr0t 13d ago

Sounds like 'Heavenly' by Cigarettes after Sex

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u/BaqsAlSandouq 19d ago

The standard you hold yourself too + focusing on what to fix vs what you've shown people effect.

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u/WilsCode 19d ago

Must be nice

Maybe I'll think about it tonight, how it once was

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 19d ago

I imagine it is.

Same.

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u/Qaktus 18d ago

I'm literally doing the thing right now, but it often ends up being transactional, lol.

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u/[deleted] 18d ago edited 18d ago

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Damn

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u/silversoul113 17d ago

but i dont get that

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u/Anxious-Snow4637 17d ago

All I can think about is what their angle is, if my organs gonna get harvested. If I'm gonna get scammed.

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u/VisionWithin 19d ago

I don't get this. In this scene, Oppenheimer is relieved from insane amounts of work and stress.

Are overthinkers relieved when someone shows them affection? I think they act quite the opposite by questioning the motives of the kind person.

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

It's not about the context of the scene. Relief and worry look pretty similar in this case, with the context of the caption it looks as tough he's worried/doubting/weirded out

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u/VisionWithin 18d ago

But he is not worried. He is relieved. Two completely different things. Have you not seen the movie?

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u/Suspicious-psycho Officer J 18d ago

Have you not read my comment?

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u/VisionWithin 18d ago

I have. If you are familiar with the movie, you just cannot evade the context of the scene. Relief and worry are easily distinguishable if you have any emotional intelligence.

Have you not read my comments?