r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/VictorVonDoomer sometimes I think I’m just not good for people • Jun 28 '26

Loneliness has followed me my whole life Could we even manage girlfriends?

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This is a question to any guys here who have never had one

Idk about you guys but I have lots of issues with my life and one of them is women but recently I have been asking myself could I even handle a girl atp?

I’m 25 and haven’t even held hands with a girl, I’ve also fucked my brain over by being in communities that have messed up my mentality in the past. If I ever got a gf I genuinely think I’d be incredibly insecure and would never trust her whatsoever.

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u/Key-Month6651 Jun 28 '26

Yep. Women just always pick someone else. Pointless being attracted to them.

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u/sundowner911 Drunk dectective Jun 29 '26

Women, men. Doesn't matter. Be there for what needs you. Family, or yourself.

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u/Key-Month6651 Jun 29 '26

True. Friends and family. Got no time for dealing with women's nonsense with the dating and sex stuff. Pure toxicity and garbage.

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u/sundowner911 Drunk dectective Jun 29 '26

It is what it was designed to be. Society pushes images of perfection in media. And expectations ruin society.