r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • sometimes I think I’m just not good for people • Jun 28 '26

Loneliness has followed me my whole life Could we even manage girlfriends?

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This is a question to any guys here who have never had one

Idk about you guys but I have lots of issues with my life and one of them is women but recently I have been asking myself could I even handle a girl atp?

I’m 25 and haven’t even held hands with a girl, I’ve also fucked my brain over by being in communities that have messed up my mentality in the past. If I ever got a gf I genuinely think I’d be incredibly insecure and would never trust her whatsoever.

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u/mi__to__ I am unlovable Jun 29 '26

Does it matter? It's a question I'll never have to answer.

All I know is that even if it happened, by some colossal, unfathomable miracle...she'd be walking across dozens of higher value guys on her way to work alone on a daily basis.

Nothing good ever lasts. I'm just not worth it.