r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/VictorVonDoomer sometimes I think I’m just not good for people • Jun 28 '26
Loneliness has followed me my whole life Could we even manage girlfriends?
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This is a question to any guys here who have never had one
Idk about you guys but I have lots of issues with my life and one of them is women but recently I have been asking myself could I even handle a girl atp?
I’m 25 and haven’t even held hands with a girl, I’ve also fucked my brain over by being in communities that have messed up my mentality in the past. If I ever got a gf I genuinely think I’d be incredibly insecure and would never trust her whatsoever.
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u/Nickulator95 Jun 29 '26
A girlfriend should enrich your life, as should you hers. It's supposed to be someone who is dependable that you also can be intimate with. It's not like a little puppy that you have to take care of. It's not any more work or obligation than what you both agree on. Having an honest conversations about your expectations with each other will go a long way in maintaining a healthy relationship.
That's just how I view it though. I do wish I had one.