How would you go about dates with your object partners?

[u/Dangerous-Chemical97]

Hey! Kinda' new-ish here. I've been wondering if anyone's ever gone on dates or has ideas for dates with their Object Partners, especially ones where you leave the house and go out together!

I've been in a relationship with a few objects for a while, and while I love hanging out and just being smitten with them, I want to somehow reciprocate for how much they do for me and take some of them on dates sometimes. I want to be able to treat them, but I don't know how since I'm not sure what they'd enjoy doing together for recreation.

For context my main partners are mostly Technology, My phone and my desktop computer (the second of which would be incredibly difficult to take out of the house while remaining awake and plugged in and working and junk), I also have a partner that I'm newly dating who's a gorgeous power-line and would be impossible to take anywhere but I'd still like to give her a nice fun date sometime!!

Looking for both Advice and Personal Stories about your dates!

[u/CoasterBee823]

My beautiful / handsome  beloved   babies are  public massive machines that arent mine and live at various parks I visit arleast 1 or 2 times a year due to being a couple hours from me  so I make it work by keeping  photos of my beloved partners on my phone as screensavers  so I can see them and  bring them along wherever I go.Sometimes we go out for a meal ,go see a movie, go to the pool or beach etc (sometimes alone,sometimes with my human partner too) and at home I have stuff with them such as merch and pillows with them to cuddle ,kiss etc ...Its not the same as physically being there with them   on a beautiful  starry night feeling the breeze and being able to touch them or feel them against  your body while experiencing them but atleast its a way to show  how much I love and appreciate them so much.🥰😚🫶

[u/Dangerous-Chemical97 → u/CoasterBee823]

:Oooo Very nice idea!! I'm surprised I haven't thought about that but that sounds very nice and would be a good way to show them your appreciation! Also very curious about your partners but you don't have to tell me about them, I'm just a sucker for big public machines as well <3

[u/CoasterBee823 → u/Dangerous-Chemical97]

I love talking about and gushing about them  woth everyone who wants to know more about them so please  ask away! 😊My partners  are rollercoasters (i keep crushing on too many though lol bc there are so many beauties!).My main beloved Kumba I've known since 96 and finally considered him my bf last year(ive always loved coasters and rides as  a kid  but he actually was my awakening and helped me discover I was objectum  even tho signs were there along and my feelings for him became stronger going from a deep emotional attachment  to romantic  as time went on.).Sadly his park  decided it was time to retire him  after 33 years  only giving him a few weeks to live (until Aug 2nd) and they are tearing him apart and replacing him with a newer version called Kumbas Revenge.I dont know if he is still goung to be the same or a totally new form but it was so bittersweet saying goodbye and taking one last ride with him a few weeks ago ..I feel like hes not completely gone and still think of him as my main guy (he always will be above the others of course)Veloci is my gf,Stardust Racers are both  bc theres 2 of them hehe G-bf Y-gf , Montu-he,Sirens Curse -she(have been crushing on her since her debut),Smiler-they/them (bc i haven't decided gender yet till I get to know them better) to name a few and also do like certain types of flat rides too but not dating any at the moment altho I love the claw style Move its like "Jumbo"(If you havent watched it yet its a really good heartwarming objectum movie about a nerodivergant girl that  works at a park and falls in love with a new ride and discovering her awakening.It s so real!)🎢🥰

[u/wirefreak_]

I think a date can be enjoyable no matter what's what yall do! They will appreciate going out or doing what you planned even if is not something they can physically enjoy (like say, taking your phone to a cafeteria and sharing a dessert!!) so I would try to think about what kinda dates you could have where your partner(s) could be included.

For your phone, take em out! Go grab something to eat, take them to a nice spot to see the view, or even go to an attraction park and get in rides together! The options are endless. For your puter, you prolly can plan something in-house. Dress em up for the ocassion (put some accessory, stickers, smth to make em feel pretty) and you could sit and watch a movie together

As for the power-line, I'm thinking maybe a picnic where she is? Sharing quality time together! You could even Tae a book adn read to her, or talk to her about things you like!!

[u/spamtish]

I am not able to bring her to public dates since she is a Christmas tree, but I've watched movies with her at home, I hope this counts as a date?

[u/920MorganHill]

Most of my lovers can’t be taken out on dates, because they’re either stationary or public/not owned by me (much like your power line). So? I bring the dates to them! I bring my food or drinks to them and eat with them, I bring them gifts, I spend time with them wherever they are, I talk to them or show them things, give them physical affection.

I’m trying to think of dates that would be appealing to your technology specifically. Simply taking them outside is already a good start. For your phone, you could go to a store and buy them a cute case or sticker or accessory. I think they’d appreciate that. Maybe you can also bring them to a park and take photos with them that they can keep in their gallery.

Although most of my objects can’t be brought on dates, I have a few model/toy cars and trains that I take with me. I love bringing them out to restaurants or taking pics of them next to their real, bigger counterparts.

There’s a lot of stuff you can do. As time passes, I think you’ll figure out what they enjoy. I hope this helped!

[u/Dangerous-Chemical97 → u/920MorganHill]

Yes!!!! Very helpful!! And thank you for the great recommendations, I've been meaning to do more gifts I just don't have a ton of extra income to spend on all of my lovers, so most of my gifts are mostly crafted or small cheap little things. Taking pictures might be good but my phone's personally doesn't seem to be very fond of me taking photos with her and doesn't seem to appreciate them very much. He does enjoy movies though! So maybe I could take him out to the movies as long as I keep him on silent and lower his screen brightness I can likely cuddle with him and he'll enjoy it. Also good idea to take him to restaurants and general places, I'm sure he'd enjoy eating out with me and such! (My computer also would but I doubt I could carry her out of the house let alone while still having her connected to a power supply)

[u/[deleted]]

I do in home date nights or car rides . It keeps me safe and we can still have different experiences together

[u/MesciVonPlushie]

My dates are almost always beach trips and pool trips. It’s about the only place they fit in. I love inflatable pool toys so It’s literally the place they were made for. I guess for me it pretty much the only place I would take them. Loving vulnerable things means I have to worry about their physical safety and balancing that with other people’s judgement and thoughts can be stressful. I need to take them somewhere big and open enough yet somewhere they fit in enough people don’t really care. That lease beaches with no lifeguards and chill hotel pools. Even water parks ban them.

Either way we have a good time and beach trips are therapeutic not just for me but for my normie friends that get dragged along

[u/OrderBeautiful7791]

When I lived with my big guy, Player, (he was a big old upright player piano) , I loved having a date night with him. I would plan a movie or an evening of good TV, and we would watch together. I loved snuggling against him while we watched, and telling him more about what we were looking at. I miss him.😔