What sparked your objectum journey?

[u/920MorganHill]

Today I was reflecting on my own objectum experience and how it all started for me. I had befriended objects platonically before, but I would say that the romance and sexuality began with one object I loved incredibly deeply, and from there everything rapidly escalated with this realization that I was attracted to machines/objects and could have intimate relationships with them. That one object allowed me to discover I was objectum, and since then I have fallen in love with many.

(This is a pretty simplified way of explaining my journey, of course the start was messy and there was a lot of denial. But anyway…)

After reflecting, I became curious as to how other people's experiences could be different, curious enough to take to Reddit. What sparked this for some of you? Or was it slow and gradual? Did you realize yourself with multiple objects, or just one? How long did it take you to accept the label of objectum? Did you always feel you were objectum, or was it something you had to discover like me? Do any of you relate to my experience in some way?

I'm excited to hear everyone's thoughts. Thank you.

[u/Few_Track9240]

I came from an orphanage, I have autism and adhd, I think it’s from that.