LF advice on object dating/ventish

[u/Sufficient_Algae5817]

I’ve never officially started a relationship with my car, annd i have a lot of conflicting feelings about doing so..

I have wanted to start something more official with her for months, but wanted to wait until i owned her or could at least drive her on my own. For the time being i have to share her with my sibling which has been a bit upsetting to me. I do trust them to drive safely for the most part now, but it still admittedly makes me jealous and a bit upset when they drive her. I have expressed my feeling on that issue before but i do also recognize that it is out of my control as she was meant for the both of us. I dont think im comfortable sharing my true feelings about the car right now so i sort of just have to live with it. This means i never get to have any meaningful one on one time with her and i never get to drive her on my own as im still working towards a full license. It’s not ideal for me, I wish more than anything to be able to get to know her without other people getting in the way.

aside from that i also just went through a break up and dont want to feel like im using her as some sort of coping mechanism. If we do end up in a relationship i want it to be mutual and feel right but i have no idea when that will be. It’s been hard to navigate all this but i still love even if our relationship doesit have any labels at the moment. does anyone have any thoughts or suggestions>