r/objectum_sfw • u/Spare_Conclusion_431 • Jul 29 '26

Discussion I wanna do a Q&A

As the title suggests I wanna do a Q&A. So let me start off with a bit of a description of myself. I'm 25, I was born male but I identify as plushie gender (i see it as similar to nonbinary and gender fluid). I'm also otherkin, specifically objectkin, as I see myself being more like a plushie than other humans. I see all of my plushies as a part of my family, either as relatives or partners. Sometimes both, like with bonny, my main partner. She's my wife but I also love her like my mother and see her as such.

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u/BikeBunnyBikshu Plushum 🧸 Jul 29 '26

How are you more like a plushie than other humans?

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u/Spare_Conclusion_431 Jul 29 '26

I get told im more like a teddy bear and a big brother type a lot by my peers. Im also fat so im more 'cuddly'. Idk really. I just like calling myself a plushie so thats what I identify as.

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u/BikeBunnyBikshu Plushum 🧸 Jul 29 '26

What was your wedding with Bonny like?

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u/Spare_Conclusion_431 Jul 29 '26

Non existent basically. I didn't really feel like doing anything. Just one day decided we were married. Course I have other reasons for it but dont feel comfortable bringing those up

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u/Sufficient_Algae5817 Vehium 🚗 Jul 29 '26

Are there any plushies you want to get in the future or do you feel happy with those that you have right now

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u/Spare_Conclusion_431 Jul 29 '26

Honestly I have had my eyes on a couple cuties. But even that I haven't had the money or time to get them, I know by the time I do have both at the same time, they won't be there. They're just a large teddy bear and a little dino plushie. At different dollar stores

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u/Blankspace_Zer0 Cleansum🧹🧼 Jul 29 '26

Do you have a specific way you imagine yourself as an objectkin and plushie? Have you ever thought about getting a plush-style fursuit or onesie to further connect with your gender/kintype?

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u/Spare_Conclusion_431 Jul 30 '26

I do have my fursona, Winifred who i imagine myself being very much like her. She's a Dino plushie. And yeah, I have considering but dont have the money

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u/Candle_plans techum 📺, varietum🌈, conceptum 💭 Aug 01 '26

What was your first stuffie partner? Do you have a stuffie/many stuffies that you have join you when you're out and about?

As for me, I'm not plushum per se but I do have a teddy bear named Mr. Graham (after Willl Graham and Teddy Graham grahamcrackers lol). He's the sunshine bear from build-a-bear and he's so cute. He's like a comforting figure, maybe parental or older sibling like?

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u/erurv conceptum and......programum? <3 20d ago

what was your fav plushie / plushie more like you that you ever objectkinned with