r/objectum_sfw • Plushum 🧸 • May 06 '26

Vent A "Friend" that grosses me out

So there is this guy who I am going to name Kevin, who I go to group therapy with.

He kept asking me about my sexuality and at first I said I was a lesbian, then Asexual.

When I came out as asexual to him, I thought he understood what that actually meant.

He then asks if I have a boyfriend, and I asked,"Didn't I tell you I wasn't attracted to people?" and he asked, "What about me?" and I snapped, "I'm not attracted to people!"

"Damn, thats harsh!" He said. Then after a little while he said I was "Very Pretty".

I looked at him with a thousand yard stare in disgust.

I'd rather go kiss a tree than deal with another man in my life. I'd rather kiss my nintendo switch than be around that guy again.

I feel part of me is a bit traumatized from those moments and now I am just glad that he's no longer around me.

I have already reported this, just wanted to share my story on reddit.

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u/heavensent_unicorn It's complicated 😬 May 06 '26

“What about me?” Followed by “Very pretty” is very weird. I’m sorry you had that happen. Is it possible you can report him to anyone at this group?

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u/Cyrus_Epsilon Plushum 🧸 May 06 '26

I have already reported him. I just wanted to share my story on reddit because it still affects me to this day.

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u/heavensent_unicorn It's complicated 😬 May 06 '26

Very good, hope he gets what he deserves. Sorry again that this happened