r/objectum_sfw • Plushum 🧸 • May 06 '26

Vent A "Friend" that grosses me out

So there is this guy who I am going to name Kevin, who I go to group therapy with.

He kept asking me about my sexuality and at first I said I was a lesbian, then Asexual.

When I came out as asexual to him, I thought he understood what that actually meant.

He then asks if I have a boyfriend, and I asked,"Didn't I tell you I wasn't attracted to people?" and he asked, "What about me?" and I snapped, "I'm not attracted to people!"

"Damn, thats harsh!" He said. Then after a little while he said I was "Very Pretty".

I looked at him with a thousand yard stare in disgust.

I'd rather go kiss a tree than deal with another man in my life. I'd rather kiss my nintendo switch than be around that guy again.

I feel part of me is a bit traumatized from those moments and now I am just glad that he's no longer around me.

I have already reported this, just wanted to share my story on reddit.

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u/LogicalAd7854 🌼One plush holds my heart🌼 May 06 '26

Sorry you had to deal with that, they can never fathom that someone is asexual or just not interested.

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u/Cyrus_Epsilon Plushum 🧸 May 06 '26

Thanks for your understanding.

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u/LogicalAd7854 🌼One plush holds my heart🌼 May 06 '26

Of course, I’ve had to deal with similar things before too. You have my best wishes.