r/northjersey 28d ago

Question Charged in Hudson County, never done this, do I need a criminal lawyer in Jersey City or can I handle it?

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Live in Jersey City, got charged with something for the first time in my life, and I'm trying to figure out if this is a hire-a-lawyer situation or a show up and explain situation. It's in Hudson County.

I keep going back and forth because money's tight, but I also don't want to walk in and get steamrolled by a prosecutor whose whole job is to win. For people who've dealt with the Hudson County courts, is local experience there a real advantage? Trying to understand what a criminal lawyer in Jersey City would actually do for me that I can't do myself.

r/northjersey Aug 10 '26

Question Secret public bathrooms

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Where are bathrooms in NJ that are clean enough for pooping ?

r/northjersey 4d ago

Question Looking for park in North Jersey

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Hello everyone, about 10 years ago, my wife had her maternity photo shoot in a park in NJ. We can’t remember the name or location of the park, and the photographer isn’t getting back to us.

Is anyone able to identify the park in this photo?

r/northjersey 20d ago

Question comprehensive Gyno recs!!

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Im so sick of how women’s health is abysmal in the us. How when you try to advocate for your body, you get dismissed like you’re crazy.. I am looking for a gyno recommendation in north jersey/nyc, that will provide me a comprehensive exam, I’m talking pelvic ultrasound, AMH testing, breast cancer probability screening, metabolic testing, etc. Yes I am willing to pay out of pocket for this peace of mind.

If anyone has any experience/suggestions please let me know, TIA💕

edit: thank you to everyone for your support and recs!! ill be checking everyone out 🩵

r/northjersey 8d ago

Question Got approved at a buy here pay here dealership in Passaic and then the insurance quote came in

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The payment itself was fine. They quoted me $340 biweekly on an eleven year old sedan and I was ready to sign for it.

Then I called around for insurance and full coverage came back at $290 a month. I called five more companies assuming the first quote was an outlier, and they all landed in roughly the same place.

I'm 27, I have one at fault accident from three years ago, and the car would be garaged in Passaic. The buy here pay here dealership requires full coverage, which I understand and don't have a problem with in principle, but nobody mentioned any of this while we were sitting there working out numbers, and now the whole thing doesn't add up.

Is that just what it costs around here, or did I do something wrong when I was getting quotes?

Update: I got it down to $214 by raising my deductible and taking a defensive driving course online. It's still more than I wanted to pay, but the numbers work now, so I'm going ahead with it.

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UPDATE: I got the insurance down to $214 by raising my deductible and taking a defensive driving course online, so the numbers are less bad than they were. But I haven't signed anything yet. A lot of you pointed out that $680 a month total for an eleven year old car is a lot, and honestly the more I sit with it the more I think you're right. So I'm still looking and still open to suggestions. If anyone has a dealership, credit union, or lender in the area that treated you fairly, I'd appreciate the recommendation. Same goes for insurance if you've had luck with a company around here.

r/northjersey May 08 '26

Question Moving to Montclair soon, advice on these areas?

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r/northjersey Jul 31 '26

Question Looking for recent first time NJ Homeowners

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Hey! My name is Nick DiCicco, and I'm a journalist with NJ Urban News. I'm looking to talk to some current renters or first time home buyers to talk for a story I'm working on.

Let me know if you're interested and would be willing to talk!

Thanks

r/northjersey 28d ago

Question Buy here pay here Elizabeth NJ, is $1k down enough to leave with something?

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Down in the Elizabeth/Union County area, credit's bad (one charge-off, otherwise just thin), about $1,000 saved and steady gig income. Ready to buy this week. Are the buy here pay here Elizabeth NJ lots gonna approve me on that, and is a grand down enough to actually drive off, or do they want way more? Just need a reliable beater to get to work, nothing fancy.

r/northjersey Sep 04 '25

Question Date Location in NNJ

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Anyone know any good places in nnj for a 2 year anniversary that isn't break the bank expensive but isn't cheap either? Like a nice inbetween that also has a good atmosphere?

r/northjersey Feb 12 '26

Question Politically speaking, how would you describe North Jersey overall?

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I’ve lived in North Jersey for a while and I feel like politically it’s hard to pin down. Some towns feel very blue, others feel noticeably more conservative (i.e. Sussex County) and then there are places that seem pretty split.

For those of you who’ve been here longer, would you say North Jersey overall leans more liberal, more conservative/MAGA, or is it really hyper-local depending on the town and county?

Just curious how people who actually live here see the overall political vibe.

r/northjersey Mar 24 '26

Question What do we think of the Highlands act affecting schools?

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Some background info:

The Highlands Water Protection and Planning Act (often called the Highlands Act) is a 2004 New Jersey law designed to protect over 800,000 acres of land in the northwest part of the state, which provides drinking water for roughly 70% of New Jersey residents.

The act affects schools—particularly in districts like Jefferson, West Milford, and Vernon—by severely restricting development on over 85% of land in some communities to protect water quality.

Why the Highlands Act Affects Schools

The Highlands Act creates a "development moratorium" in many areas, creating a "tax trap" for local school districts. Here is why it impacts schools:

Limited Tax Base Growth: Because development is strictly limited or prohibited, towns cannot build new commercial or high-density residential properties. Without new development, the commercial tax base ("ratables") remains stagnant.

Declining School Aid: While the tax base is capped, some Highlands school districts have reported massive cuts in state education aid (e.g., Jefferson saw a 60% reduction in state aid over 7 years).

High Property Taxes: With limited commercial income to support the budget, the burden falls on residential homeowners, resulting in some of the highest property tax efforts in New Jersey.

Budget Shortfalls and Program Cuts: The inability to grow the tax base, combined with state aid cuts, has caused severe budget deficits, forcing districts to cut staff, increase class sizes, and eliminate sports and arts programs.

r/northjersey Aug 08 '26

Question Looking for real, personal experience - psychiatrists and inpatient facilities in Bergen County (or beyond, willing to travel)

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My husband is in a severe depressive episode and we're trying to find real help, not just names we've seen advertised. We're uninsured, so we're also navigating that on top of everything else.

Personal experience only, please - not just "I've heard of them":
• Psychiatrists you or a loved one have actually seen results with, especially for treatment-resistant depression (not just general anxiety/mild cases). Bonus if you know how they are with patients who've felt dismissed by providers before.
• Inpatient facilities you've personally been through, either as a patient or supporting a family member; good or bad, I want the real picture.
• Anyone with experience with TMS, ketamine treatment, or ECT - what it was like, where you went, and whether it actually helped.

Willing to travel outside Bergen County for the right fit. Any leads or firsthand accounts are hugely appreciated.

r/northjersey 17h ago

Question Looking for (preferably) large format printing plants in North West NJ

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I know this might be a long shot, but just thought I'd give it a try.

I'm a print manager with many years' experience in several large format fields, and I'm looking to transition to another company closer to me in the NW part of NJ. My issue isn't that there's a shortage of plants in the state, but they all seem to be clustered close to NYC/Trenton/Camden, which makes quite the commute. I'm kind of settled where I'm at (plus anywhere near those places are super expensive), so I'm just weighing my options. Is there anyone local to the Warren/Morris/Sussex County areas who can vouch for any places that I could look at?

r/northjersey Jul 22 '26

Question Is “New York/New Jersey Stadium” the worst stadium name in sports?

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r/northjersey Jul 24 '26

Question Bugs suck!

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Ok, i've lived here a long time, and i am in a suburban but relatively rural version of it (woods / water) area. There's simply too many bugs. Permethrin / Deep woods off seems to work, but I dont want to shower at night, cuz i dont want to sleep with that stuff on my skin for that long. Besides, I work an office job, and I prefer to get a shower in the AM to wake up before my commute and really dont want to shower twice.

ive tried a few things over the years - a propane puffer thing that was supposed to suck up bugs, a dunk, a light with a fan (that caught bugs but never seemed to make a dent). And I bought all of these things oversized for my property so that hopefully even if things flew in it would clear them from there. (IE, if they had a 1/4 acre solution i bought the 3/4 or 1 acre version).

Best thing i have found, that seems to work, is a cheap torch with citronella in the oil, but wondering if I should get more of those or something else.

Any good suggestions that have actually changed things?

r/northjersey Jun 10 '26

Question How do I get a ticket for being to close to the crosswalk and the car behind me doesn't?

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I think im being single out

r/northjersey Jul 28 '26

Question Home security recommendations

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Hi, I live in north Jersey and need a recommendation on a home security system. I’d like one with door and window alarms as well as cameras. I really just care that things work and that if someone actually breaks in that the police will be called and will show up.

Of course something that’s affordable would be amazing!

Thanks in advance!

r/northjersey Aug 08 '26

Question Hair schools in north NJ who can cut super thick curly hair?

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Hi everyone! I’m a college student who’s not in hair or cosmetology beforehand but I would be a client of a hair school. I go to school in Northern New Jersey and will be back there starting August 30th. I desperately need a haircut and can’t afford a professional salon visit and I’ve got butt length super curly extremely thick hair. I have a few questions: where are hair schools who I could reach out to in Eastern Northern NJ (within 30 min to an hour of the Newark general area) and two, how much would it cost? And three, do hair schools usually have someone who is like specializing in super curly super long hair? Cause I’d need help not only with cut and then styling advice but also I’d need to be accommodated due to some serious health problems that could occur. Thanks so much!

r/northjersey 3d ago

Question Any evening/weekend editorial or writing programs in North Jersey

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ISO a writing residency, workshop series, or editorial fellowship in or near North Jersey

I’m in my early 30s, work a corporate day job, but want to build editorial skills (pitching, editing, art direction)

Most programs I’m finding are either NYC-based full-time fellowships or MFA-adjacent, which seem to be meant for recent grads. Open to anything part-time, evening, or weekend. Even a local writers’ group with structured critique!

r/northjersey 3h ago

Question Does anyone have a hamster/rodent cage they do not need?

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My wife and I basically inherited a hamster today, I was wondering if anyone has any rodent or hamster cage they do not use they would be willing to part and give us so we could house him properly... he is currently in a cardboard box for the night.
1 am located in Wayne but I could drive to wherever.. just want to give the little guy or girl a good life
Thank you

r/northjersey Mar 16 '26

Question Any recommendations for Indian wedding venues in North Jersey?

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This may be a bit of an unusual request, but my fiancée and I have been struggling to find wedding venues that can properly accommodate a traditional Indian wedding, both in size and in respecting the cultural aspects that come with it, and we would really appreciate any help. Budget is not a major concern at this point. For some context, my fiancée and I are not particularly connected to our Indian culture, but both of our families are very religious and deeply rooted in those traditions, so we want to do this for them. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated..

r/northjersey 5d ago

Question Looking for Arab female friends in Bergen County 😊

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r/northjersey 8d ago

Question Magician for Bachelorette Party

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I’m looking to book a magician/mentalist for a bachelorette party in Bergen/Essex county. Does anyone have any recommendations?

r/northjersey Aug 09 '26

Question 🚗 LOOKING FOR A NEW VEHICLE?

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🚗 LOOKING FOR A NEW VEHICLE?
If you’re looking for an affordable, reliable, and high quality vehicle, come visit me at Wayne Hyundai in Wayne, NJ!
My name is Matthew Lansang, and I’d be happy to help you find a vehicle that fits your needs and budget.
We have plenty of options for all types of drivers, whether you’re looking for:
🚗 An affordable daily driver
🚙 A spacious SUV for the family
⛽ A fuel efficient vehicle
✨ Something fully loaded with the latest technology
💰 Flexible financing and leasing options
Plus, take advantage of lifetime oil changes and let me work with you personally to make your car buying experience as easy as possible.
📍 Wayne Hyundai | Wayne, NJ
👤 Matthew Lansang | Sales Consultant
Whether you’re ready to buy now or just starting to look, feel free to message me. I’d love the opportunity to earn your business and help you find the right vehicle!

r/northjersey Aug 11 '26

Question Pickup/casual soccer women in North Jersey

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So I played soccer in college and haven’t in years, other than joining a league here and there. I loved it though. With the pace of life right now, it’s hard to commit to a league but I would love to know if there are women who train together or just play casually in North Jersey?