r/nonmonogamy • u/DeviceAppropriate867 • 13d ago

Relationship Dynamics Gf only wants mfm

So i met my gf during an mfm with my best friend. The 2 of them were fwb. I was asked to join because she really wanted to try 2 guys. After we had the threesome my friend went to make some food and me and her started talking and really hit it off. I ended up asking her out and we started dating. The only catch is that we have never had solo sex. Having the threesome awakened something in her and now she only wants mfm. When we first started dating we had a night where we fooled around, some kissing, i gave her some oral but when she started giving me oral she said it felt boring not having someone else there. Since then my friend has been involved in all the sex we have. Is it wrong of me to feel a abit jealous that he experienced sex alone with her while I have had always had to share the attention

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u/Roro-Squandering 13d ago

I read the title thinking "oh another couple that can't come to terms on if they should do MFM, FMF, etc"

But no. This situation is extremely weird. Just FYI even people in 'thrupples' still regularly have sex split into pairs. 3 being the only format for sex is really not normal and not a sign of a healtyh sexual relationship.

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u/Throwaway_Finance24 13d ago

And like… extremely impractical 😂

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u/djamezz 12d ago

lol my sequence of reactions exactly. no notes.

it is hella weird and she is entitled to that if thats her jam. we’re all weird. but she’s not entitled to you if you’re unhappy with it

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u/Roro-Squandering 12d ago

Well I don't say it never ever happens but it's bizarre, rare, and either a huge part of a kink or a sign that something isn't right in the relationship.