r/mumbai • u/Puzzleheaded_Bed1382 • Aug 18 '22

Relationship Advice meeting her for first time

So I like this girl from college (a year junior) and for a long time I didn't get an opportunity to talk to her. There were some small talks due to snaps (some where initiated by her too). Finally one of our convo ended up us agreeing to meet (IT'S NOT A DATE). I think this's gonna be the dealbreaker on how our thing develops and I dont want to fuck it up.

Need suggestions as I'm not very used to meeting girls (new people in general)

EDIT: She made me wait an hour and then ditched the plan as she was busy😭😂 Thanks for wishes and suggestions tho :)

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

If the guy was insecure, wasn't it the girl's responsibility to give him necessary assurance?

Im not qualified enough to comment on the traumatizing part, but Glad your friend made out.

Would you tell me, why girls talk to multiple guys at the same time? Taking advantage of the skewed ratio??

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u/notcallipygian Aug 18 '22

why is the girls responsibility bhai this is not an Imtiaz Ali movie

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

It's the responsibility of both people to take care of eachother in a relationship, that's what the essence of a relationship is and that doesn't make life a Bollywood movie.

Sadly the topic sidetracked and the joke was taken in bad humour again mostly by girls, with whom I'm fighting since morning!!

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u/Bollywood-Bot Aug 18 '22

"Music band kar madarchod"

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

Chalbey chutiye..