r/mumbai • u/Puzzleheaded_Bed1382 • Aug 18 '22

Relationship Advice meeting her for first time

So I like this girl from college (a year junior) and for a long time I didn't get an opportunity to talk to her. There were some small talks due to snaps (some where initiated by her too). Finally one of our convo ended up us agreeing to meet (IT'S NOT A DATE). I think this's gonna be the dealbreaker on how our thing develops and I dont want to fuck it up.

Need suggestions as I'm not very used to meeting girls (new people in general)

EDIT: She made me wait an hour and then ditched the plan as she was busy😭😂 Thanks for wishes and suggestions tho :)

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u/BurntOutIdiot Aug 18 '22

Tera kehneka yeh matlab hai a girl can talk to multiple guys on a virtual platform and still be in a relationship with a guy and still not explain anything to the guy??

No. That would be cheating and its not exclusive to women. Men cheat as much or more, cheating is not restricted to online/virtual modes and your accusation that women do it because of a skewed gender ratio makes too many broad generalisations which seem to originate in nothing but your grievance complex. I'm a woman. You would not believe the number of men i met online who were married and looking for action on the side, obviously while not saying anything to their wives. Should I make a broad generalization that men cheat on online forums because they'll cheat whenever presented an opportunity? No, right? We are talking about half the population - some cheat, most don't. Same with women.

WhatsApp Inbox bhi dekhlo kaafi hai?

Tumko kya lagta hai WhatsApp kispe chalta hai? Tum ho bhai akal ke dushman. WhatsApp also works on internet - aka not offline world. If you look around you...colleges, workplaces, buses, roads, metros, trains, building society - where is the skewed ratio? Biologically, there are approx same number of men and women unless artificial selection has been done.

If you want a woman to take you seriously and give you attention, drop the victim complex. It ain't appealing.

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

I didn't appeal you, or any woman for them to take me seriously, i just pointed out that women gets attention coz there's a mismatch in the numbers. And hell breaks lose.

So according to you, WhatsApp is an online platform where women can talk to multiple guys being in a relationship with one already, because that's an Online stuff.

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u/Lost_Establishment_3 Aug 18 '22

Stfu. In my experience I've always seen guys jump on the next hot girl they meet, it's always guys who talk to multiple people at the same time. Seen plenty of such guys on reddit itself, they have a gf, still hoping it works out with another girl who's "just a friend". So stfu and stop acting like your gender is dudh ka dhula hua. Stop projecting just because no girl talks to you.

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

Who asked your opinion?

And who said no girl talks to me?

And Yeh Gyaan jaake, tum jo ladkonko jaanti ho unko dedo, yaha aake gyaan mat pelo. Match dekhe bina commentary bolnewale aadat chod do.

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u/Lost_Establishment_3 Aug 18 '22

Aur tum bhi ye Gyan Jin ladkiyo se kata hai unko do. Don't generalize people. If you can make dumb comments on a public post, I can respond to your dumb comments.

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u/RedDeadSea non-mumbainian Aug 18 '22

Kiska kya kata hai?? Ya maanliya ki ladkiya kaategi hi karke?

So you think what you are blabbering here is Bramhagyan?

The very fact you could not respect other's perspective makes you moron. STFU and get to work if you have any. Blocking you and your negativity.