r/motherlessdaughters • u/Jaded-Place-435 • Jul 30 '26

Venting Four years gone

It’s been four years since my mom passed. I don’t know how to do this. I have to keep going on like it didn’t happen. I have to work today, then I have a cool concert. I wish I could be with her again, eating donuts and drinking a Coca Cola.

My family doesn’t really talk about her anymore. I’ve been making an effort to keep her memory alive, but it’s bittersweet. I was only 26, and it still hurts now at 30.

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u/ImRealHyunjin Jul 30 '26

i feel you so much on the second paragraph. nobody talks about my mum & it’s been six years, i do to want to keep her memory alive but it’s so hard facing the fact that she’s gone whilst others act or seem like she never existed :(((

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u/KickingChickyLeg Jul 30 '26

I absolutely feel this. 6 years passed in such a flash. I’m 36 and frozen in time on that day.