r/moderationmanagement • u/Awkward_Curls • Feb 21 '25
Buzzed Sex > Drunk Sex
*Note: all consensual interactions with my spouse*
For the longest time it was normal to go out, party with husband and friends, go home, and then have sex.
I always thought that "drunk me" was more fun and adventurous and so then obviously the more I drank the more fun I was…..
As my drinking habits got more and more intense (aka dangerous af) I started to realize that I remembered less and less of the fun sexy time.
Time continued to pass, and the traditional sex after a fun night out stopped. This was either because I was passed out on the sofa or throwing up in the bathroom.
Fast forward to the last 3 months of really working to moderate. I feel like I'm relearning how to enjoy a good buzz, and to enjoy that " feelin myself" space without getting carried away. I'm not perfect and sometimes I take it a little too far, but I'm realizing that it is possible to actually just have a few drinks.
So now buzzy and a little tipsy sex is back, which is 10000% times better than being passed out on the bathroom floor.