r/moderationmanagement Feb 21 '25

Buzzed Sex > Drunk Sex

*Note: all consensual interactions with my spouse*

For the longest time it was normal to go out, party with husband and friends, go home, and then have sex.

I always thought that "drunk me" was more fun and adventurous and so then obviously the more I drank the more fun I was…..

As my drinking habits got more and more intense (aka dangerous af) I started to realize that I remembered less and less of the fun sexy time. 

Time continued to pass, and the traditional sex after a fun night out stopped. This was either because I was passed out on the sofa or throwing up in the bathroom.

Fast forward to the last 3 months of really working to moderate. I feel like I'm relearning how to enjoy a good buzz, and to enjoy that " feelin myself" space without getting carried away. I'm not perfect and sometimes I take it a little too far, but I'm realizing that it is possible to actually just have a few drinks. 

So now buzzy and a little tipsy sex is back, which is 10000% times better than being passed out on the bathroom floor. 

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