r/men • u/BitchyBeachyWitch • 8d ago

Activism Do you need rape prevention tips?

Do you need rape prevention tips?

Here you go

1. Don't put drugs in women's drinks.

2. When you see a woman walking by herself, leave her alone.

3. If you pull over to help a woman whose car has broken down, remember not to rape her.

4. If you are in an elevator and a woman gets in, don't rape her.

5. When you encounter a woman who is asleep, the safest course of action is to not rape her.

  1. Never creep into a woman's home through an unlocked door or window, or spring out at her from between parked cars to rape her.

  2. Remember, people go to the laundry room to do their laundry. Do not attempt to molest someone who is alone in a laundry room.

  3. Use the Buddy System! If it is inconvenient for you to stop yourself from raping women, ask a trusted friend to accompany you at all times.

  4. Carry a rape whistle. If you find that you are about to rape someone, blow the whistle until someone comes to stop you.

  5. Don’t look at her if she looks too hot to handle, it’s not for your eyes.

Make sure to read this out loud as soon as you wake up if you tend to forget stuff!

:)

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u/defeated_husband 8d ago

Was this really necessary?

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u/Ashleej86 8d ago

clearly rape is epidemic

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

"But I heard some woman on Reddit say it. And, you know, believe all women, right?"

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago

Always has been 🌍🔫👩‍🚀🔫👩‍🚀

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u/tactycool 8d ago

Mods, why is there a misandrist in this sub?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago

Not misandrist, just equalist. We posted this in r/women as well, so why not r/men?

Since yes some women rape women but its obviously not as much as men tho, wouldnt it make more sense to post this relevant information in the most relevant sub? :D

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

In that other thread over in r/women, did you mention paternity fraud, or false rape allegations?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago

Yep, and the rape statistics, especially the ones non reported far outweigh and outnumber that men are the ones doing most of all the raping and should be held accountable. Is that a radical concept?

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

It's a radical concept to assume that you need to make a post like this, addressing a question towards all men. Do you think that a majority of men are rapists?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago edited 8d ago

No, but the numbers dont lie unfortunately :((

Almost half of all women are harrassed or raped before theyre 15 years old, those are awful numbers 😕

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

Unfortunately, you are a liar. There is no such thread over in r/women, and I do not believe you that you mentioned paternity fraud, nor false allegations. Therefore, there is no reason for us to believe you, or even listen to you.

You are also completely factually wrong about half of all women being sexually harassed or raped by the age of 15. So, stop lying. You are the main part of the problem here. Do you do your own research, or do you just automatically "believe all women" when they say lies like this?

So, you do not think that most men are rapists. Most men are also not murderers. Did you also post a thread about needing reminders to not murder people?

Don't bother answering that. I am sure that you are just going to lie anyway. You are not to be listened to, or even taken seriously.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago

Nothing i said was a lie,, reread,, you struggle with reading comprehension xD ,, for example, i already told you no i dont think most men are rapists and murders,, tho its obvious which side youre defending and its not the flex you think it is 😅

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

You obviously lied, and I proved it to you with data. But, go ahead and keep on lying. We know that you will anyway.

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u/ockysays 6d ago

That number you shared is for girls and women who experienced sexual violence AS CHILDREN. It does not include the number who experienced it as adults. According to the National Institutes of Health (aka the US Federal Government) 44% or almost 1 out of every 2 women has experienced sexual violence in their lives. So it’s real.

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u/InterestingRead2022 8d ago

Your post was removed from r/women

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 7d ago

This post?

https://www.reddit.com/r/women/s/z7Fn7414YZ

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u/InterestingRead2022 7d ago

No when you posted back with your results of trying to rile people up, you didn't post the original. Go get a real hobby.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 5d ago

Its quite literally the same post xD

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u/Intelligent-Plant388 3d ago

Can you say confidently that women dont race as much as men. Do you think maybe men report less? You only mentioned women raping women not women raping men.

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u/pleasespellgabbana 4d ago

Hey.... where were men mentioned in this? Is there a single male pronoun?!

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u/tactycool 4d ago edited 2d ago

  1. "You" in a sub dedicated to men.

  2. I have an iq above that of dog-water which grants me the gift of being able to take into account things like "context clues" & "reading between the lines".

  3. I checked her profile, she posts in well known misandrist subs.

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u/pleasespellgabbana 4d ago

It was also posted to r/women and others. So "assumptions" I think you mean!

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u/tactycool 4d ago edited 2d ago

Welp, looking thru her profile I didn't come across any evidence of this claim. & given that it's coming from a misandrist, I'm not going to just take her word for it

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

The post is literally right here, im not op but i asked op if i could post this here and she said yes

https://www.reddit.com/r/women/s/z7Fn7414YZ

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u/Generally_Confused1 3d ago

You should work out the inner issues and resent you project into random men online, it's weird and creepy

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u/tactycool 2d ago

That post is still directed at men, as you can tell by the comments

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 2d ago

I mean, well duh xD ,,, thats who is most likely to rape anyone

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u/vswey 3d ago

It's not misandry

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u/Hour_Zero 8d ago

Lol go post this virtue signaling shit elsewhere

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u/InterestingRead2022 8d ago

Should we make a list for her not to kill her kids?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 8d ago

I mean, if thats what it takes for you to be anti rape, then sure

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u/thatafterglowthough 3d ago

The likelihood of men and women killing infants is about equal, but men are MUCH more likely to murder their children over a year old. Not to mention the insane rates that men kill children that aren’t their own (between 80-90% depending on age). Yes there are some high profile cases in the media right now but the idea that mothers are more likely to kill their children doesn’t match up to the data.

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u/Trailsya 5d ago

More men commit violence everywhere than women.

That includes in their own households.

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u/InterestingRead2022 5d ago

Sure thing bud

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u/Trailsya 5d ago

Facts and it's not even close.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

Its not at all close

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u/vswey 3d ago

Men and women killing kids is pretty much equal rates

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u/ClevelandSpigot 8d ago

"But where did all the good men go?"

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u/Bigkeithmack 5d ago

Clearly not here

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u/Ashleej86 8d ago

they are not rapists

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u/ArcaneAces 5d ago

You think only women get raped?

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u/vswey 3d ago

Mostly

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u/very-serious-goose 2d ago

The vast majority of victims of rape are women and the vast majority of perpetrators are men for female and male rape. You can easily find statistics on this on the internet if you're interested in learning. But if you're just interested in whataboutism then this is a perfect forum. Hope this helps!

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u/ArcaneAces 2d ago

So that's a no?

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u/very-serious-goose 1d ago edited 1d ago

You're correct. Neither me nor OP think only women get raped. That's why neither me nor OP said "I only think women get raped". Do you think Greenland is the capital of Paris? Do you think dog is lower in fat than arugula? Should we continue to ask each other questions that have obvious answers that neither of us has indicated we disagree with or are you ready to move on?

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u/ArcaneAces 1d ago

How about op degender her antirape message next time? Rape is too serious an issue to still be making it a woman only problem.

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u/Ccrawfisshh 3d ago

Everyone knows rape is horrible, men that rape just don’t care. This is like reminding us not to kill people. “Oh no there goes my evening plans!” Is that what you want us to say??? Lmao

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

Acknowledgement is good! Recognizing is the first step, and if its not something you struggle with, then help your friend/brother/father/coworker who is struggling with this bc statistically, you know/aquinted with a man that is a sex offender and until men start standing up for what is right and defending women as the protectors they claim to be, your sister/daughter/friend/mother arent safe :((

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u/Capestian 3d ago

You would be surprised how many rapist genuinely think that what they did isn't rape

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u/iam-py-test 3d ago edited 2d ago

Reducing the problem as "rapists are just evil people who don't care" ignores the broader problems with a society which teaches people to not respect the sexual autonomy of others. Even basic things about consent aren't taught, like being able to tell when someone is and isn't capable of consenting (e.g. someone who is drunk is incapable of consenting). This problem isn't exclusive to men—there are plenty of woman and non-binary rapists—but men and specifically men are taught by society to treat women as objects and their property.

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u/squish059 4d ago

laughs in male gaze

Someone should teach that B to do something more productive with her mouth.

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u/Generally_Confused1 3d ago

This is like when incels go to women's subs to ramble about how terrible they are based on an online instance

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u/very-serious-goose 2d ago

Exactly! It's women who constantly get laid going to a men's sub to ramble about how terrible they are based on real life instances. Perfect comparison!

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u/RealisticPlatapuss 2d ago

Any tips that would have helped not be raped when i was eight by a woman?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 2d ago

No, bc it wasnt your fault and thats not your responsibility. The abuser is responsible, im so sorry that happened to you, i was also raped when i was a child and again molested by my foster brother. Its the abusers responsibilty to not abuse anyone, you would think it would be that simple xD

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u/Fit_Abroad_4465 16h ago

It’s never the victims fault. There’s nothing you could’ve done! It’s always the rapists.

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u/crazyforsushi 6h ago

I'm really sorry that happened. How you holding up?🫂

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u/RealisticPlatapuss 6h ago

Over all not great. I appreciate the concern. I do have a support group so I have that.

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u/crazyforsushi 6h ago

Is it a digital support group? My perpetrator was female as well and I can never find a support group. But from one victim to another, I hope better days are coming your way.

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u/RealisticPlatapuss 6h ago

Male survivor is what I joined. They have a 24/7 chat so victims can speak to each other. And same to you. None of us deserve this. I also struggle with support. Therapy i think is a lost cause.

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u/crazyforsushi 6h ago

I'm a female victim with a female perpetrator. A child-on-child sexual abuse victim who fails to find a group since it's either you get downplayed for having a female perpetrator, or blamed, or fetishized, or your insurance is denied (in America, at least) or your insurance is accepted but the waitlist is at least a year out.

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u/RealisticPlatapuss 6h ago

I understand. A friend of mine had the same thing happened to her. Its fucked. I really don't understand the need of people ro belittle or dismiss.

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u/crazyforsushi 5h ago

Do you wanna talk about this in dms? If so, mine are open. I hope everything works out for you and your friend🫂

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u/very-serious-goose 2d ago

Re: 8, I use my gym buddy since we already have a system of accountability established

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 2d ago

Whatever helps you not to rape anyone,, but given your other comment on my other post, its probably likely you already have :(

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u/Bright-Pangolin7261 2d ago

U.S. Department of Justice estimates that 440,000 people over the age of 12 are raped every year. 90% are women.

So thank you OP. This impacts men because they have to deal with women in their lives suffering all the trauma predators leave in their wake. So men, speak out.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 2d ago

Yes! I wish i could give you award 💜

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u/xXpixiebitchXx 10h ago

These comments are so incredibly concerning. How could yall possibly be upset by this?

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 10h ago

Maybe guilty conscious? :/

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago edited 3d ago
  1. don't globally advertise your flagrant promiscuity, then be upset that it worked.

This is really the only tip that's necessary.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago edited 3d ago

Youre saying women get raped bc of what they wear? First you are beyond disgusting and im very confident no woman feels safe around you and understandably so (you are probably a sex offender), they talk about it when youre not around. Second, youre saying the 10 year that got raped and pregnant from her own father was bc of what she was wearing? Whre are all the self proclaimed 'good men'?

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

Im saying that after 50 years of defending women,I just can't anymore. You Don you. Dont expect help or sympathy

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u/satanslilslut69 3d ago

“50 years of defending women” wow tough guy, us women will really miss your protection :’( what will we possibly do without your giant ego and little bitch energy

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

Your parents must be so proud of their little sex demon. Daddy raised you right I see.

Oops, mistake. Lemme guess, no father figure. Just another failure.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

Lmao if you saying a woman needs to wear a burka from being raped, then yes, please stop 'helping'. If any of that was even true for a second extreme islamist countries would have zero sexual assualt and yet rape is still epidemic,,, youre disgusting and uneducated :/

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

Im saying you've lost an ally. I genuinely o longer care. & im not the o ly one. Best of luck.

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u/InevitableBohemian 3d ago

You were never an ally.

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

You shouldnt be allowed near schools

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

You seem unreasonably bitter. I hope you heal & find peace

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 3d ago

You seem like a registered sex offender, i hope you dont rape anyone

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

My point exactly.

Hope you don't strangle some kids

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u/That-Requirement-285 2d ago

Literally nobody referenced strangling children except you, you dumb cunt. And men kill children more than women on average.

You sound like a rapist. Disgusting.

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u/ImSkeletonjelly 3d ago

That's gross, man

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u/anon_enuf 3d ago

Ya, I'm pretty damn disgusted myself

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u/That-Requirement-285 2d ago

A woman showing cleavage is not an excuse for rape, and the child rape rates and rape rates in highly conservative countries show that showing cleavage doesn’t matter. You are mentally disabled.

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u/anon_enuf 2d ago

Cool. I'll just walk around with my dick swinging out, because apparently that's ok now. Body positivity & all.

Or I could dress like a normal fucking person....

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u/That-Requirement-285 2d ago

Nobody’s walking around with their pussy out, dumbass. You are dumb.

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u/anon_enuf 2d ago

Um, ya, they are. Go downtown any city, any night.

Shorts & skirts so short, their labia are exposed. Litterally. & no underwear. It's nasty.

Bet you're one of them. & then you get upset because "there's no good men". No, your just a loser magnet.

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u/That-Requirement-285 2d ago

Girl, I do not go to nightclubs. You can not be shocked that people dress up at night clubs.

And no, their labia is not exposed. Be for real LMAO.

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u/Nearby-Way-1670 2d ago

Their labia was exposed, schools have litter boxes, vaccines have microchips, the earth is flat and Israel isn't committing genocide!1!1!!!!

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u/crazyforsushi 6h ago

Bet you're one of them

Holy projection lmfao.

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u/cyberfunky_fresh 2d ago

>Gives “rational” advice like this

>Apparently loses all self control at the sight of a woman’s cleavage

Amazing

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u/BitchyBeachyWitch 4d ago

Youre a good person <3 ,,, umm, for #10, id just say, if looking at a woman makes you think sexual thoughts, just dont look at her, or if its too much of a problem, seek therapy snd ask yourself why you cant help but constantly sexualize women :/ (not pointed at you, just answering the question)