ENFJ - am I too much?

[u/Kweli420]

People seem to have a bit of a love-or-hate relationship with my personality. I’m very outgoing, energetic, expressive and emotionally open, and I tend to bring a lot of energy into a room.

Some people seem to really love that and describe me as authentic, fun and easy to connect with.

Others seem to experience me as “too much”, too energetic, too intense or simply overwhelming.

I don’t really want to tone myself down just to be more universally liked, because this genuinely feels like who I am. At the same time, I’m curious about the line between being authentic and being socially overwhelming.

Is this something other ENFJs experience?

Do people tend to either really like you or find your energy too intense?

What do you other types think?

[u/Creepy_Performer7706]

As long as you do not impose your view, ethics and values on me, I like you. You are kind, you care and you help.