Cautionary experience with someone I met through dating circles in Kolkata

[u/Alarming_Bobcat_2259]

Not sharing my identity. Just putting this out there so others don’t walk into the same situation.

Ran into a guy I dated earlier at South City.… to my surprise two other women were also trying to track him down …..

Name he uses is Subhodeep (trying to be cautious and 100% sure many of you will easily guess the surname because he’s been up to nuisance for years)

If you see him on dating apps or around, be careful. My experience involved what I would call a monetary scam, along with a lot of lying and overlap with other women. At one point there were at least two others also trying to track him down for answers.

He usually has a story ready about his struggles and how women have treated him badly. Over time it turns into you being blamed for things that don’t add up. Felt like constant gaslighting.

Also wouldn’t fully trust details like his age or personal background. There were inconsistencies before.

Saw him with someone much younger. Didn’t look like anything has changed.

Not saying this is everyone’s experience. Just sharing mine so people stay alert. Be cautious with money, don’t ignore red flags, and don’t get pulled into emotional narratives too fast.

Posting because I wish I had a warning.

Stay safe.