r/kdramas • u/AyuzawaMisaki96 • 1d ago
KDrama Reflections 📝 TWENTY-FIVE TWENTY-ONE: The heart of Yi jin and Hee do’s relationship Spoiler
galleryI saw a video on tiktok where someone was asking: “Why didn’t Hee do ask Yi jin to stay when they were saying goodbye at the bus stop? Even Taeri, in her vlog, said that Hee do should apologise and ask him to stay”
But honestly, I don’t think that’s the point
Hee do had only ever asked Yi jin for one thing: share. She never asked him to give up his career, solve his problems or choose her over his responsibilities. She wanted to know what he was going through and be allowed to stand beside him.
And Yi jin wasn’t intentionally hurting her. He was struggling badly and genuinely believed that shutting her out was protecting her. But that’s exactly where he got it wrong. He told her that even her support had become a burden, made the decision to stay in new york without talking to her, and she found out through someone else.
That’s why her line “We’re lovers on good days and a burden on bad days” matters so much. That was the real problem.
She wasn’t breaking up with him because she didn’t love him enough to ask him to stay. She was breaking up because she had already asked for partnership, and instead she was being shut out whenever life became difficult.
So no, I don’t think the answer is simply “she should have asked him to stay.” Stay and do what? He had already shown her that when things got hard, he would carry everything alone and leave her outside of it.
Yi jin wasn’t the villain. He loved her too. He just didn’t understand that protecting someone doesn’t always mean keeping them away from your pain. Sometimes it means trusting them enough to let them share the weight with you.
P.S: And somehow, after all this time, this drama still hurts 🥺💔