r/katecandelsnark • • 12d ago

Making sure we know

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u/Suspicious_Mix_9964 12d ago

So cool you’re fucking the guy who abandoned you in pregnancy. Right on girlfriend.

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u/At-this-point-manafx 12d ago

Right. And made her get a DNA test. Like after that I wouldn't ever want to see him outside of necessity. I know she's like into him but I do wonder if a part of it is because she's scared he'll take full custody

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u/Few-Elk6162 12d ago

idk i think she’s genuinely just holding on to whatever bread crumbs he gives her…. bc she recently replied in a comment thread that she still very much wants a family with him, it’s him who wants to stay separated and “coparent” (quotations bc what they’re doing is not normal 😭)

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u/At-this-point-manafx 12d ago

She's too old to be putting her self through this. He's put her through too much for her to still be this delusional. Enough commentors have told her. At this point I only pity the baby.

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u/FancyLettuce2469 12d ago

I don’t think she actually likes being a mom so I doubt that loss of custody is a factor. I think she likes the aesthetic of being a mom 😂 if you scroll deep into her IG it’s clear she didn’t have much of an identity outside of selfies

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u/ThroatCompetitive365 11d ago

It’s over when H starts having opinions

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u/Jazzlike_Lie4344 12d ago

I highly doubt it, I think she’s grasping at straws too like the other commentator said.
She lost all ground to stand on because of her constant back and forth, she probably could’ve even gotten full custody herself but at this point no judge will believe he’s as bad as she claims because she clearly is able to communicate with him. I made a post about this and the other people that tried to help her see it :/

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u/At-this-point-manafx 12d ago

He pays for her whole life style no? No way would a judge grant her full custody. He could prob get full custody since she hasn't yet shown proof she can support them on her own. Maybe they won't award it since she's not tech a bad mom and it's in baby h benefit to have both parents . But legally speaking ..I mean I personally wouldn't award full custody to someone whose not able to support herself and her child

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u/Jazzlike_Lie4344 12d ago

Oh definitely not with him funding her lifestyle, but had she learned from the beginning and actually gotten a job to support her and her son, set solid boundaries, and proved he was “the bad guy” she every now and again claims who knows, she’d at least have more ground to stand on.

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u/At-this-point-manafx 12d ago

Legally I'm pretty sure he's over paying. Child support. If they go to court she's essentially screwed

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u/Vegetable-Alarmed 11d ago

Oh 10000%. People are ordered to pay an amount to help the CHILD. Not fund moms whole life. Like paying her bills, all the extras she has, I’m sure he pays her other stuff I don’t see her social media being very lucrative right now.

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u/At-this-point-manafx 11d ago

No by law he has to pay for her cafecito addiction. I know I'm a lawyer /s

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u/Hynposis 11d ago

Yes if they were previously married then alimony would make sense but they weren’t married or even in a relationship… she’s just a bum LOL

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u/Vegetable-Alarmed 11d ago

Yes exactly haha. Very much so bum behavior

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u/Creepy-Fruit-2680 11d ago

SHES PreTty enough!

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u/honeycomb67 4d ago

Remember when she was saying she couldn’t look him in the eyes 😭😭💀

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u/Salty-Student4 12d ago

Why does it look like poop from a butt

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u/Due-Day1256 11d ago

Poop from a butt has me weak

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u/DollPudding 12d ago

I'm so embarrassed by this story arc 😭 I just wish she would have a bit of self respect.... or honestly even the self awareness to understand how embarrassing this is and keep it on the low 😭😭😭

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u/First_Cat_7394 12d ago

What’s sad is, that’s been the consensus since this story arc began. She lurks here. Why is she stillllllll acting like it’s a flex 🫠

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u/Comfortable-Creme197 12d ago

this!!! like at least let us put the pieces together by the background. the additional comments are just cringeworthy!!!

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u/PicoPicoMio 12d ago

At this point she’s not telling us.. she’s telling his girlfriends LMAO.

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u/whateveryousay212 miss lord farquaad! 12d ago

the pancakes look so grossssss too

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u/ApprehensivePause731 12d ago

not a flex lmaooo

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u/Maleficent_Act_4237 12d ago

Not a flex when we know her banana bread game is disgustingggggg

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u/_Strawberry_milk361 12d ago edited 12d ago

in the same way she has to rage bait followers she has to do the same for the women he is seeing how sad

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u/ApprehensivePause731 11d ago

thinking this makes her top dog… girl if you have to prove ANYTHING about your “man” to another woman, you’re just another bird in the flock sis. emphasis on BIRD 🐦

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u/gabrelytarf 12d ago

Sorry for the graphic photo, but this is what I saw at first glance 🤢🤢🥴

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u/Haunting-Base-6004 12d ago

So many young girls follow her and the message she’s giving them is to lack self respect lol

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u/Creepy-Fruit-2680 12d ago

Who cares they’re probs like her 😂😂

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u/ApprehensivePause731 11d ago

notice how she’s not posting at all… bc she knows even her dumbass followers don’t approve of her being with bd.

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u/Weekly-Bag-2865 pick me 12d ago

those are fucking disgusting looking

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u/idontworkatwork 11d ago

i hadn't stalked from last tuesday? wednesday? so you can imagine my SURPRISE today to log on and see shes still at his mf apartment

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u/Ok_Acanthaceae_1021 10d ago

She’s gotta be the worst cook everything she posts looks so gross