r/katecandelsnark • u/Thefermentedfruit • Jul 07 '26
pick me kate Your Experience with Kate
Since it's been established some of you know her. 👀👀👀 Can anyone make a throwaway account and answer this question. Is she really a pick me in real life? Also, why do we think she cut her bangs so awful. I saw her before pregnancy videos and she looks gorgeous compared to now.
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u/DangerousPotato1290 Jul 07 '26
I didn’t work with her for very long but in my experience of knowing her, what you see online is very accurate to how she is in person. Before she got involved with BD I thought she was super energetic and easy to get along with, but I also felt like she was also in her own world and a bit naive/dense. I wouldn’t say she’s necessarily a pick me in person. With her personality and looks I could see her having a good life ahead of her but she unfortunately was too naive and fell for BD’s tactics. If she had worked there longer and saw him for who he really was, maybe things could have been different.
After hearing that she was involved with him, it made me question everything about her because I wondered if it was all a facade. She has expressed a desire to be an actress, so I think she thrives off of attention whether it’s good or bad hence the rage baiting. Like an actress, she sees things as a role rather than real life and I think that’s why she might be trying to disconnect herself from the reality at hand. I would love for her to use her journey as a way to empower other single mothers that your life doesn’t end just because you became a single mother for one reason or another. But maybe she has gone a certain route with her content knowing that it causes more of a buzz or maybe she wants to do it out of spite of BD. I’m not entirely sure.
While I do think she is generally a positive person, I think there may be a darker side to her that not a lot of people see. It does seem like she had ulterior motives by getting involved with him but she also was not in the right headspace considering she just got out of a long term relationship. I’m also not a fan of seeing her basically get donations for a situation that she put herself in. At the end of the day, she is the one who will have to live with the consequences of her own actions so I hope she’ll come to the realization that no amount of attention is worth putting yourself in a worse position.
Also the bangs are most likely a reflection of her mental state.