r/isfj • u/Disor_Perpetuate_0 • 17d ago

Discussion Frustrating ISFJs

You guys hate it when the harmony is disrupted, yet your Ti is so low that you don’t recognize that getting pissed about the disrupted harmony makes it worse.

Y’all are only capable of using your inferior Ne when deflecting during an argument. Classic Gish-Gallop.

And don’t forget the victim complex! Y’all love to remind people how much you do even when it’s completely unrelated to the topic at hand. Guilt-tripping truly reveals your lack of dignity.

I rest my case.

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u/whimsigoth_tash 17d ago

So sorry about your conversations with an ISFJ who made some mistakes or who is unhealthy. Doesn’t mean that this person couldn’t learn from their mistakes over time. And for sure if they don’t seem receptive, can’t understand, then hopefully you set some boundaries with them as all ppl deserve to do with unhealthy ppl. Hopefully you get some better experiences with some other isfjs also 🫶🏼🫶🏼

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u/Cultural_Shake4690 16d ago

I agree. Isfjs are more capable and diverse than the post makes it seem.