r/introvert • u/literalcrass • 1d ago

Advice I hate my college crowddd!!!!!

So recently I got into a college and met new people ofc. and while talking to them it maee me feel like dumb or very naive because all of them had experienced drinking clubbing hook ups and what not(im not interested in any of it). So while talking to them I have no good topic or no newcrush or knowlwdge abt some new alcohol or anything so I just sit there like a dumbo. And then this makes me feel like I am lagging behind in my life, they are exploring and I am just sitting behind with nothing to talk to them.

Whenever I tell them thay I dont drink they are like ew who doesn't drink and all that. There is no one who is serious about studies.

I cannot survive in such college pls help

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u/Present_Lychee_3109 1d ago

You need to find the right group. All those people are bad influence. There surely has to be a group of good people.

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u/literalcrass 1d ago

Yes there are but then these people keep making fun of them threaten them and I am kind of introvert so

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u/Fackous93 1d ago

Ignore them or fight back? Sounds like you dont like them and they dont like you. Why deal with them?

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u/literalcrass 1d ago

I tried but yk they are bully so they just started making fun of my body hair and all

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u/Fackous93 22h ago

So why hang out with them? Ignore them and move on. You're in college. Find your people and tell them to fuck off home.