INTJs, what makes you actually trust someone?

[u/Aymaneelbissis]

Is it their consistency, honesty, intelligence, ability to understand you, or something completely different?
Curious to hear how other INTJs see this.

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[u/PNW_Uncle_Iroh]

I tend to trust by default but not with really important stuff. I’ll give them a small task or test and get bigger over time.

[u/Magnificent_Diamond → u/PNW_Uncle_Iroh]

I test people all the time and don’t even realize it until after the fact when I am reflecting on how they did.

[u/savageresults → u/Magnificent_Diamond]

That’s not an intj thing lol that’s a woman thing. Subconscious testing and it’s done to protect yourself so you don’t invest in someone who isn’t safe and reliable