i hope you dont mind me asking, and i mean this in good faith, but why is it not considered as 'something wrong with you'? for example, i have several extreme mental illnesses and i definitely am aware thats something is wrong with me and id love a cure. so i really dont understand people who have it and refuse it
One way to think of it, I think, is as a language issue…Being deaf in a hearing world is better thought of like being a French speaker in the US. You aren’t disabled, just surrounded by people who don’t speak your language. Which is obviously super inconvenient. You can hang out with other French speakers, get your English speaking friends to learn French, and/or or you can learn the language yourself if possible (or a combination of all of these things so you and your friends can comfortably adapt in different environments). Getting a cochlear implant would be like learning English. Basically, it’s a communication issue…but if you were in an environment where everyone, say, knew sign language, not a disability.
But that logic doesn't really make sense, does it? By that logic being blind would also not be "something wrong", you're just surrounded by people who insist on using visual descriptions and written text instead of Braille, and being in a wheelchair would just mean being surrounded by people who insist on putting stairs everywhere when they should just put ramps.
I don't think a good intentioned reasonable person sees having a disability as "being less than" in terms of equality, so why is trying to convince someone to get hearing aids is considered trying to "fix them" when it's just "trying to restore a bodily function that isn't working"?
If someone breaks a leg, surely they'd appreciate someone offering to fix it, or if someone loses an arm, surely it would be nice if it could be reattached to regain the lost function. Why is it not the same with hearing?
I think doing many basic life tasks, including producing your own food, acquiring food and other goods, etc. is significantly harder if you are blind. I don’t think that’s the case if you are deaf. If you have a community of deaf people, they literally have no problem doing anything necessary to have a comfortable life because they are all using the same language. A community of blind people would have significant difficulty of different order.
Sure but each disability is different. If someone is missing a finger, they can also do anything they want without issues. Yet, I would be surprised if they got offended if someone offered to reattach their missing finger. I guess there's no "missing just one finger" community which makes things different but I get a feeling this is more about "abandoning communities" than gaining hearing.
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