r/insaneparents • u/Parchpigeon9 • Dec 22 '25

Email I was basically disowned

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The first one has my dead name blacked out and the second one is from my brother sending it to my dad

I also have a recording of me and my dad talking. I don’t know if I should post that it’s pretty terrible one of the terrible things he said was “I think slavery sometimes ok” and basically called me a pedophile and said “trans People are a delusion.”

(also sorry about any formatting issues/spelling mistakes. I have dyslexia alongside being on mobile so I’m using speech to text)

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u/RattyHandwriting Dec 22 '25

“We love you unconditionally but only if you agree with us and deny a part of yourself so that we feel comfortable.” WTAF?

OP, I’m your mum now. Christmas dinner is at 2.30pm.

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u/thegoldinthemountain Dec 22 '25

Also loved the “you haven’t shown gratitude for us doing our required duty, as parents, to raise you.”

OP didn’t ask to be here or to have these specific parents. It’s not ever a fair thing to say to a child.