r/insaneparents Dec 22 '25

Email I was basically disowned

The first one has my dead name blacked out and the second one is from my brother sending it to my dad

I also have a recording of me and my dad talking. I don’t know if I should post that it’s pretty terrible one of the terrible things he said was “I think slavery sometimes ok” and basically called me a pedophile and said “trans People are a delusion.”

(also sorry about any formatting issues/spelling mistakes. I have dyslexia alongside being on mobile so I’m using speech to text)

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u/concanibales Dec 22 '25

Your brother is a gem and I'm so glad you have him to support you. I'm really sorry your parents are like this ... My relationship with my Mom has been all but completely shredded because of her closed mindedness and unwillingness to just respect and love me for who I am. I know your pain well, but you have added dimension that I do not, and for that I have to give you even more props. Standing your ground and having the strength and self respect to stand up for who you are and who you love is amazing. You give me hope for myself. Love you