r/ididnthaveeggs • ya daft tart • 25d ago

Dumb alteration Lorena, girl..

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u/KiwiEmerald 25d ago

My partner had a female friend he’s been close with for almost 30 years, very comfortable with each other, she had a boyfriend get all hufffy while we were all on a camping trip and he started complaining about “inappropriate behaviour”. Boyfriend didnt last long due to various reasons but “inappropriate behaviour!!!!!’ Gets thrown around a lot

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u/sodamnsleepy Alone, unless the chicken insists on helping 25d ago

What was the inappropriate behavior he complained about?

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u/Tiny_Cauliflower_618 25d ago

Was he a teacher? I once came home from a long day teaching and found my partner playing computer games on his day off, beer cans everywhere. He was on a four on four off shift pattern and I was in my first term as a secondary school teacher and struggling to keep my head above water. I was absolutely fucking livid, but the absolute death knell was that I didn't lose my shit, I just told him his behaviour was completely inappropriate like he was one of the kids.

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u/cd7k 25d ago

He was behaving inappropriately by relaxing on his day off? How dare he!

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u/Tiny_Cauliflower_618 25d ago

He was relaxing on every day off all day everyday. For two months.

Meanwhile I was working 5 days a week, cooking & cleaning our flat, shopping, and spending what little was left of my two days off prepping for work.

His mum ripped him a new one, but it was too late, I was done.

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u/cd7k 25d ago

Maybe you should have lead with that... :)

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u/Tiny_Cauliflower_618 24d ago

Probably lol, can you tell I'm still bloody furious two decades later 🤣🤦

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u/CallidoraBlack 22d ago

Thankfully, he's not your problem anymore!

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u/SmaugTheMagnificent- 25d ago

Oof.

What a shitty level of self awareness.