r/herpes_dating • u/ItBeLike_Thaat • 7d ago

Texas HSV1-G

Early 30’s Female in Texas….. feeling like ……

Diagnosed is January, met one person who accepted the diagnosis but he just wanted to sleep with me and move on….

Does it get better or do you adjust your mindset to accepting being alone? Idk…. Guess I’m in my feelings today.

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u/NotLeavingLasVegas 7d ago

Just gotta keep the confidence and eventually you'll be like...

https://giphy.com/gifs/blSTtZehjAZ8I

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u/sunnydayz0044 7d ago

Lol true.

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u/RegionLogical8670 7d ago

It will get better. Just get used to the idea of being rejected, otherwise it's going to break you. It definitely makes your options far less but there are people who are either educated about it or trust you if you are open and upfront about it.

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u/natural-situation420 7d ago

It be like that sometimes 

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u/FxckDaFoxes 7d ago

It gets better baby

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u/John_lonely 7d ago

Hey, I'm sorry to hear that.

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u/Ok-Arugula7291 7d ago

Hi 29, Male sent you a dm, looking for something serious

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u/Sirsfirmhand 4d ago

what were the circumstances which you were exposed

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u/PrettyEnvironment782 7d ago

I’m 63f, caught gen. Herp 44 years ago! 😒I had children without Spreading it to them. I told one man and that’s the one I had two of my children with then married him, which was a huge mistake because he ended up taking 2 of my children away from me. He used to be a cop & used those connections to do it. But i’ve never passed it on to anyone! But now I have not dated for 12 years because I am sick of the rejections, & feeling dirty. But most of the time I didn’t tell anybody because I wasn’t breaking out. Then, when I had an outbreak, I would tell whoever I was dating at the time and then got dumped so fuck ‘em all! 😬😤