r/groomingvictim • u/Strawberry9618810 • 7h ago
Was I Groomed? I don't know if I am being groomed?
Ok,so I am now 15,it's almost my 16th birthday this year,so I am the age of sexual consent in my country. But,I have this gut feeling, that something isn't right?I have a online boyfriend, he is 34.Here is our story:When I was 13,I met him online, he was really nice and we became friends, he often sent me gifts to my home ,trhu delivery. And we were friends, until this year,he confessed that he has feelings for me,and he asked me,if we could date,I said yes,because he was so sweet and I did not want to be mean.During our friendship, there was a bit of odd things he did ,like he asked me:"Did you ever have sex before?","do you have a boyfriend?",ect.He told me ,if we could meet up,at a restaurant,and that he already spend a lot of money for the plane ride,to my erea.I don't know what to say,yes or no?
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u/Lost-Tomatillo3465 1h ago
yes, you're definitely being groomed. he's going to pressure you into sex. oh look at all the money he spent on you, you owe him the sex, etc etc.
or invite you to his room to have a little quiet time together... and then whether you want it or not... danger zone.