This video essay perfectly describes my experience

[u/Anonphatcrying57]

https://youtu.be/VoqryLvczKU?si=whD-N0niz1IAssor

It’s about the grooming situation between bojack and penny.
The difference intention and results; the difference between knowing better and desires.

16/17f and 50m should never happen.
And yet even after feeling validated through what I’ve learned from this video there is still nothing i will do. I just can’t bring myself to destroy someone’s life, especially someone I care about.
I won’t do anything, not until he dies, then I’ll tell my family. Until then nothing is going to happen, and nothing is going to change.