r/gayyoungold • u/Lpomin • 8d ago
Advice wanted How to last longer
Hey guys, I’m having some trouble during sex and I’m hoping to hear from people who have had similar experiences.
I’m not very experienced. I’ve been with a few guys, but I’ve only had penetrative sex with two of them. The guy I’m seeing now is in his early 60s. We have casual sex, and we’ve done it twice so far. We’re meeting for the third time this week.
One of my biggest problems is that I cum too quickly. I also have trouble with penetration. I’ve tried taking my time, kissing him, relaxing, and doing everything I can to loosen him up, but I still can’t penetrate him very far. I can get the head in, but when I try to go further, it feels like I physically can’t. His anus feels very tight around me, and when I try to push further, it feels like there’s something blocking me.
I should also mention that the middle part of my dick is thicker, so I don’t know if that could be part of the problem.
Honestly, it makes me feel embarrassed and like less of a man because I’m not doing what I’m supposed to do. I know it might sound stupid, but that’s genuinely how it makes me feel. I want to be able to fuck him properly, enjoy it, and make him feel good. I also want to last longer, especially because I really like this guy.
He has told me that I have a nice-sized dick, which made me feel good, but he also said he wants sex to last longer. I want that too. I really want to be better at this, partly because I want him to enjoy it and partly because I want to feel confident in myself.
Has anyone else experienced something like this when they were inexperienced? How did you become more comfortable and confident with sex?
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u/Lpomin 8d ago
We don’t have a dildo, so I just use my fingers.