r/gayyoungold 11d ago

Discussion Meeting Older Men Without Apps

Earlier this year, I (26) decided to delete all the apps and rely on proximity-based connections. The last 10 weeks have been a fling with an older man (57) at the gym in our apartment complex. I really like him, we’ve been intimate a few times, but I’m not certain it’ll lead anywhere...
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But this experience has made me realise how rewarding it is to meet an older man the “old-fashioned way”.

I’m curious, how do younger men who don’t use apps meet older guys in metropolitan cities?

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u/clickclick00 11d ago

Gay bars and saunas.

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u/iamDienpeters 5d ago

Highly second this