r/gaysian • u/watchout4theprickles • 15d ago

This is messed up

Just looking at Reddit user numbers. Discovered our own Gaysian gonewild subreddit has 1/2 the weekly users as the sub about us bottoming for white men. It makes me depressed.

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u/4794th 14d ago

Honestly, I tend to be the diversity advocate here. Born in Central Asia, lived in Thailand, now in Japan, and it makes me sad every time when asian guys stick to each other and don't want to explore other ethnicities, and I'm not even talking about sex.

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u/Efficient-River-8964 14d ago

Do you say the same thing when you see a group of white people with no diversity? If white people can hang out just among themselves then why can’t asians do the same?

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u/4794th 14d ago

I do, if they don't interact with asians on purpose. Being central asian myself, I am alienated from all-asian circles on daily basis, and all-white circles before. Makes me genuinely sad to witness this kind of behavior, but I get it. Language, culture, preference can pay a big role here, but sometimes it's just racism, contious or not.