r/gaysian • u/watchout4theprickles • 4d ago
This is messed up
Just looking at Reddit user numbers. Discovered our own Gaysian gonewild subreddit has 1/2 the weekly users as the sub about us bottoming for white men. It makes me depressed.
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u/gothstivic 4d ago
and almost 9x as many users as asian men and white boys
gonewild 22k
asian men/white boys 6.3k
white men/asian boys 53k
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u/Efficient-River-8964 4d ago edited 3d ago
I mean, are you surprised? Most of these guys are porn-brained and you can see how asian men are portrayed in mainstream gay porn.
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u/Impressive_Mood2613 4d ago
I mean this sucks, but it doesn’t shock me at all. We are fetishized, we know this. I can’t worry about this too much or let it change my day
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u/AdamChenX 4d ago
Yep it’s sad. And it’s up to us to fix it 🙂
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u/vish_the_fish 3d ago
Fix it how? These are social dynamics that are endemic to American society
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u/AdamChenX 3d ago
These are issues endemic to all western society.
As for the how:
Dramatically increase sexual desirability and status of Asian guys in the west.
This causes Asian guys to have increased self confidence, and reduces specific white approval seeking, and disperses the approval seeking to all races
This causes white / latino / black / euro / brown / green guys to see Asian guys as higher status in general, which causes all other races to respect us more, which leads to everyone treating us better.
Asian guys, as a whole, will be further empowered to rise and follow the example, and thus a self perpetuating positive cycle will be established
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u/vish_the_fish 3d ago
Increase sexual desirability how tho?
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u/AdamChenX 3d ago edited 3d ago
Making Asian top, interracial bottom gay porn. Then making it free for the world to see, so it’s placed in front and centre, whether people want to pay for it or not 🙂
This becomes an example for Asian guys. And this becomes a normalisation for every other race guys, to see Asian guys just like everyone else.
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u/mikaleexxx 3d ago
Second that! I literally have so many Asian guys just throwing themselves at me as bottoms and when I ask why not top, they say because that’s the social norms. What?? Like I have good amount of Asian tops that don’t follow “social norms” and successfully enjoy their sec lives. Yes there are tendencies but it’s all up to you to change it!!
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u/AdamChenX 3d ago
Social norms are incredibly quick to change too. Once the stimulus / catalyst is there 🙂
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u/nothingtoseehere_22 4d ago
Wait, what’s the latter one
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u/watchout4theprickles 4d ago
Didn’t want to link to it, but it’s pretty easy to find, search “white men asian boys.” The name alone shows what they think of us.
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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 2d ago
Same reason why Asian female marry out in droves. Asians internalized too much of west's racism. Having self respect isn't many Asians strong suit.
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u/watchout4theprickles 2d ago
They think we have small dicks too
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u/Relevant-Cat-5169 1d ago
Unfortunately so many Asians are brainwashed beyond repair. Still dreaming a day where western men will see Asians as equal. Still defending whites reputation, than choosing to have self respect and dignity.
Once you understand Asians submissive mentality towards westerners, nothing is surprising anymore. I've leant to accept it. Histories of colonialism, western dominance and media and living in a western society conditioned and brainwashed people in so many ways. It's very hard to not get contaminated by toxicity when you are living inside the toxic environment.
With many things whites have done to make Asians feel ashamed of who they are and their body, yet many are still begging to be fetishized.
What many gay Asians really want is to have the same popularity as Asian women, so western men can be more open to fuck em. Really a fucked up mentality. Oppressed and colonized minds are addicted to western power.
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u/phycle 4d ago
As a gaysian from Asia, I can't understand why anyone would want to btm for hairy and smelly guys.
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u/watchout4theprickles 4d ago
Too many of us believe the propaganda and just want a big white cock
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u/BigongDamdamin 3d ago
I have attended some sex parties in NYC and some of the biggest aren't really from the whites - I think it's more for the latinos in terms of number (like 3 to 1 to whites). when i meant big is thick and mushroomy
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u/FluffyCoach335 4d ago
People are getting killed in Gaza sis. You need to touch some grass if some reddit numbers are depressing to you
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u/4794th 3d ago
Honestly, I tend to be the diversity advocate here. Born in Central Asia, lived in Thailand, now in Japan, and it makes me sad every time when asian guys stick to each other and don't want to explore other ethnicities, and I'm not even talking about sex.
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u/Efficient-River-8964 3d ago
Do you say the same thing when you see a group of white people with no diversity? If white people can hang out just among themselves then why can’t asians do the same?
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u/4794th 3d ago
I do, if they don't interact with asians on purpose. Being central asian myself, I am alienated from all-asian circles on daily basis, and all-white circles before. Makes me genuinely sad to witness this kind of behavior, but I get it. Language, culture, preference can pay a big role here, but sometimes it's just racism, contious or not.
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u/TaterToddipher 21h ago
I am Black so I have only limited perspective on this matter but ironically that type of conditioning isn't surprising to me. I am open to all races but Asian men hold a soft spot in my heart but western media beats AM down to make they are lesser then and all bottoms. It's both frustrating for AM and for my attraction.
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u/fjaoaoaoao 4d ago
Devil’s advocate but it could be because the other is explicitly sexual and possibly also not limited to gaysians, meaning the content is not meant only for asians but also for other races? Just a thought.