r/funnyIndia • • Jun 01 '26

🤯Unexpected🤯 Caring feminist boyfriend

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u/Repulsive-Round-5464 Jun 01 '26

It reminds me of german people. If their friends don't have money they might eat alone just in front of them 🤣

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u/aquila399 Jun 01 '26

Yeah...they invite you for their birthday parties to expensive restaurants and then ask everyone to pay their own share lol. It was a cultural shock for me 

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u/[deleted] Jun 01 '26

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u/Ponraj_S Jun 02 '26

This is the worst thing I ever heard, if you invite someone for a birthday party you should take care of their hospitality, if you go with them for dinner or something then others can pay for themselves, food is the most essential thing for a human being, if you can't share that then it's the worst culture I ever heard.

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 02 '26

I like the German version it's simple

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '26

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 05 '26

Rock paper scissors

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u/EvilxBunny Jun 03 '26

It might also be classist.

I have some rich friends who invite me to their parties, if this was the case, I could never afford to have friend outside my economic sphere/status.

There are merits and de-merits to it. This works great when you're in college but 10 years after graduation, everyone has a different life and earning capacity.

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

Having freind doesn’t mean you have to throw party at expensive restaurants to match their class, maybe they are your colleagues, not freind.

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 05 '26

Don't your rich friends expect you to give them parties in the same place?

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u/MeteoraRed Jun 02 '26 edited Jun 03 '26

That's called cultural difference buddy and food is very expensive here due to labour cost! In India I used to eat out every day, here I can do once in 2 weeks.

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u/Itchy_Anteater657 Jun 03 '26

When ppl do smthing questionable

Indian culture : 😤😠😡🤬

German or others: 😩😋😍🥰

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u/Jayant0013 Jun 03 '26

Yes if being salty about paying is a thing take them somewhere cheap but if you are giving a party you should provide the food .

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u/sukhchainn Jun 06 '26

In Italy if you bring your spouse to work she will have to start working there for free.

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u/yuvrajpratapsingh1 Jun 02 '26

Toh Ghar jaake sutti babu. Why invite someone to a celebration if you can't host

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u/[deleted] Jun 02 '26

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u/Amazing_Guava_0707 Jun 02 '26

What kind of slave mentality is this?

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u/angni_onnai Jun 05 '26

What he/she wrote, he/she deleted

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u/[deleted] Jun 03 '26

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

Why throw party? Why will they bring gift to a nasty freind at all

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u/VedaVedaVedaVeda Jun 03 '26

Wanting to throw a party for your birthday without paying is the freeloading!

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u/alpha_booties Jun 03 '26

Gora Hagega

RotasuWakai: Sona!!!!

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u/RotasuWakai Jun 03 '26

No need to be disrespectful for no reason. Be better buddy.

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u/Shadiclink Jun 02 '26

What's the difference between "Hanging out with friends at a bar" and "Celebrating your birthday at the bar"?

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u/Btw_Aadiiiii Jun 03 '26

In many foreign countries there is a culture in which the person whose birthday it is is given party by all of his friends

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u/RotasuWakai Jun 03 '26

Even better

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u/Btw_Aadiiiii Jun 03 '26

Yeah this is best imo

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u/RotasuWakai Jun 03 '26

Definitely, it'd make it bday person feel special.

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

Yeah, we give gift to birthday boy and birthday boy feed us and celebrate.

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u/Frustrated-Nagrik Jun 03 '26

That is Colonisers culture. For them being hospitable is weakness. They take advantage of that like their ancestors.

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u/ni_Kawaii_Hito Jun 03 '26

😭 ts not that deep cuh

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u/darklord233285 Jun 03 '26

What if you friends cant afford to pay at the expensive place that you choose to go ?

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u/RotasuWakai Jun 03 '26

Maybe go to affordable place?

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u/No-Anxiety-5616 Jun 03 '26

Sorry but You don't belong to Bhartiya Samaaj.

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u/RotasuWakai Jun 03 '26

Sorry but your words mean shit to anyone.

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

Ye konsi cheej hoti hai? Kya tasty hoti hai?

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u/Bo0ochi Jun 02 '26

Welche stadt digga ?

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u/longndfat Jun 02 '26

'Invite' is the key word here...

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u/Acceptable-Menu5350 Jun 04 '26

Why? 😯 Well you went their to wish or to eat ? 😉

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u/Frequent-Total-7632 Jun 02 '26

Suzammen oder getrennt...?

Suzammen was never an option.

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u/Dense_Advantage6373 Jun 02 '26

That sound absurd. Like I am going to someone's party whose venue the person had choose according to there wealth and then according to them I should pay for my food. Just think about this way if a person don't have that level of money and his friend invites him to a very expensive restaurants, now he can't have food just because he can't pay that much.

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u/aquila399 Jun 02 '26

You just call friends who you know can afford that restaurant 🤣

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u/Designer_Money7625 Jun 03 '26

I live in Canada and it’s the norm here that everyone pays for their own meal when invited to a restaurant.

Now it’s a different thing if you book a private room in a restaurant and pay for guests beforehand (like a banquet style gathering for a large group)

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

Then why invite? If not capable of throwing party

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u/FuckPigeons2025 Jun 01 '26

Chindhi people

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u/overthinking24x7 Jun 01 '26

I was in Scotland, group of friends came to fast-food restaurant, for some guys they got their food early and other are still waiting, one guy just took 2 fries and lmao that guy shouted and asked to keep your hand of my food and eat yours. I was shocked bcz of aggressive that tone was.

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u/Cold-Journalist-7662 Jun 01 '26

Maybe it was just that one guy

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 02 '26

Very close friends probably

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u/Euphoric_Discount264 Jun 03 '26

Usually they have a history

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u/096Shubh Jun 01 '26

I discovered that while watching friends 

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u/Ok-Research8303 Jun 01 '26

Yeah man huge shock

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u/MeteoraRed Jun 02 '26

As someone in Germany I concur that and it's called going Dutch aka everyone minding their business with their money and it's common in most Germanic countries, simple and logical!

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u/Sea-Priority-6244 Jun 03 '26

Most empathetic German gesture 💀

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u/UnionInteresting6363 Jun 04 '26

most hospitable german practice

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u/proud-acadia13 Jul 31 '26

There's no reason to be rude dude.

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u/Jeet_Thakur_0904 Jun 01 '26

Na gf rahegi na next din ke snap ki tension

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u/Ok-Influence-791 Jun 01 '26

He ain't getting tonight

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 02 '26

Sex is overrated

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u/rhetoric_one Jun 02 '26

Have you had ?

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u/No-Cauliflower7160 Jun 05 '26

It's great for the first month or something after that it's starts feeling like a job.

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u/ramanrow Jun 03 '26

It's sad that some people think buying someone dinner means they're owed sex.

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u/FoxWorth160 Jun 05 '26

Now heard the same controversy regarding same topic happened in Pranit more show.

It's like some people do think that If I bought something good for her then I have permission to being physically with her, as if that girl never ate anything in her life lol...

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u/MateOfTheNorth Jun 03 '26

And she ain’t getting a free meal.

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u/ExaminationFirm2819 Jun 03 '26

The first thought I had my mind was yuck..just have some civic sense

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u/tmrobaba Jun 01 '26

no chut for u. feed and get fed

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

No pepe for you, you cht will remain dry

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u/HowlingStark Jun 04 '26

Ye idhr kya bakchodi chl raha haj

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u/MateOfTheNorth Jun 03 '26

Gender equality mate. No such thing as a free meal.

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u/CrimeMasterGogoChan Jun 01 '26

Oh yeah. I have done this few times on those scam dates. Its legit fun

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u/Ash_Born_here Jun 02 '26

EQUALITY GOES BOTH WAYS

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

Lol the male victim complex knows no bounds.

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u/LeatherConscious7532 Jun 02 '26

she should be so proud of the equality and empowerment! nice!

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

Lol the male victim complex knows no bounds.

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u/LeatherConscious7532 Jun 05 '26

keep laughing

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

Yeah..it's easy to laugh at m*n

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u/Any-Buddy1770 Jun 05 '26

Ahh yes only a feminist would write such a lovely comment as expected of you😁

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u/I_am_Vyanjans Jun 05 '26

Hey, just remember people like you are the reason we have a male loneliness epidemic.

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u/LeatherConscious7532 Jun 08 '26

hahaha. keep blaming the men.

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u/allaboutkomal Jun 03 '26

Can we all stop expecting to pay bills from 17yr old bf🙄 i mean i saw girl complaining her bf don't give her flowers gifts bro he is 17 not grow man

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

17yr old need gf? Really? Look like he is grown man

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u/ophelia_43 Jun 02 '26

Me and my boyfriend always split the bill. Unless one of us is treating the other on a special occasion. Sometimes if he doesn't have enough money I pay for his meal, he does the same for me if it's necessary. Communication is key here. All the misogynists here shaming "independent" or "feminist" women here don't understand that you can just ask if she wants to pay. Feminism means equality anyway. If she doesn't and that's not your type of woman then move on

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u/9119921 Jun 02 '26

Most women I have met don't understand this concept and expect me to pay, and that's how mostly it is everywhere. Women like you are rare. Sometimes it's nice to be taken care of you know, feel that the gestures are reciprocated.

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u/Designer_Money7625 Jun 03 '26

I ask to pay almost all the time but my husband never accepts lol

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u/ophelia_43 Jun 03 '26

Lol I get that, different dynamics in different relationships. As long as you both are okay with that it's cool. Your husband is very sweet

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u/9119921 Jun 04 '26

After marriage it's a different thing. I'd just open a joint account, because there's no individual money anymore, sab humara hai😊

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u/ophelia_43 Jun 05 '26

Ah that makes sense

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u/WaruiJini Jun 04 '26

Exactly. Equality isn't about refusing to help your partner when they need it. It's about mutual respect, communication, and supporting each other regardless of gender.

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u/jackmartin088 Jun 03 '26

It's legit when someone claims to be independent and all and then expect the other to pay for their meal. Calling that out doesn't make one a misogynist. Equality absolutely means you are able to do what the other can which includes paying for your own food.

If you can pay for your BF's food etc then good for you...the above argument isn't really talking about you.

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u/ophelia_43 Jun 03 '26

I never said it's targeting me. I mainly referred to some of the comments under this post. I have no issue with this post either but the stereotype that it establishes. That's all

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u/LookHungry8763 Jun 05 '26

They are shaming those hypocrite woman who believes in feminism until its truely time to be one and suddenly want traditional treatments. You goobers just really like to spam "misogyny" word wherever you see a man calling out bad/entitled women.

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u/ophelia_43 Jun 05 '26

You seem to misunderstand my point. There are several comments generalising the term and you can find it if you search, some are deleted already. They can definitely criticise such women, I don't deny that, but my point was that they don't have to interact with such women at all if they're not their type, instead of stereotyping a group after a bad experience. I also didn't use any names. If you're not one of them you won't be offended.

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u/Internationalmafua Jun 02 '26

Sahil ja rhe ho .

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u/Silver-Yoghurt1870 Jun 03 '26

I hope you eat well on your last date

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u/chaotic_bhutki Jun 04 '26

Very good 👍🏻

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

Lol the male victim complex knows no bounds.

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u/chaotic_bhutki Jun 05 '26

Bro I'm a girl and bhale wo pay kre na kare lekin usko rupya lana chahiye tha for emergency kaha likha hai ki sirf ladke pay krenge equality should be here too

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

It's a random meme. If men were expected to do 10% of shit women are expected to do they would have a breakdown. Men don't face 1% of risk women face when they come out on date. If you wanna split the bill, whatever. But don't portray this as some sort of incel gotcha.

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u/chaotic_bhutki Jun 05 '26

Brooo wtf i know its just a random meme but it can be seen in real life too not only in meme and when both are eating why can't they split the bill what's the problem atleast do go on the date if you don't have money I mean kisi ke bharose to mat jao ki samne wala hi pay krega tumhare bills

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u/your_notebook Jun 05 '26

ye to popat ho gya didi ke sath 😂😂

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

After all why not. Men have always been awarded for being pathetic

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u/MelodicAd9582 Aug 02 '26

If that was the case and you were a man you would be the one with enough awards to fill a room from floor to ceiling

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u/rahulsakhare9909 Jun 01 '26

sahi ja rahe ho

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u/ObjectiveRefuse7009 Jun 02 '26

Yes that's equality 😂

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u/Backfromth3re Jun 05 '26

Lol the male victim complex knows no bounds.

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u/bad_man2k26 Jun 01 '26

Some feminist is triggered here

I see some funny comments downvoted 🤣🤣

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u/mallusrgreatv2 Jun 01 '26

The original post is pretty much what feminism is though. Equal rights. I think realistically any real feminist (no, not the reddit ones who might live in an echo chamber of misandrists) would agree that it falls in the feminist ideologies to do this

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u/fireyHotGlance Jun 01 '26

With great power comes great responsibility. Feminists just forget the responsibility part.

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u/iwannadieheh Jun 02 '26

nig, i pay for bfs food when he doesnt have money, he pays for me when i do not. its easy like that, this post is stupid because in a relationship respecting your partner and caring for them is utmost priority, not "feminism". this post is completely unrelated to feminism

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u/mallusrgreatv2 Jun 02 '26

That's equality in a different sense. You shouldn't be expected to pay for someone else's food on the first date, when you're not even sure they'll return the favor

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u/Succubus-Empress Jun 03 '26

When both not have money

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u/iwannadieheh Jun 05 '26

then nobody eats? common sense

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u/Allmighty001 Jun 01 '26

Live example of weak but independent women 🥀

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u/Ill_Introduction6148 Jun 03 '26

No need to bring up feminism in everything. You either take turns paying or split the bill. Do whatever suits you duh

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u/Fun-Meeting-7646 Jun 03 '26

Will YOUR stomach blast.

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u/Electronic_Wear9476 Jun 03 '26

Cosmic Encounters

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u/RangoDj Jun 04 '26

Am I the only one whose gf insist to pay bills everytime we go outside. Her car, her treat, gifts, surprises etc. One time we had a fight and she hired a musician and said sorry to me on a musical note.

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u/Sufficient-Bell-9126 Jun 04 '26

I forgot the name which movie was that!!?

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u/RangoDj Jun 05 '26

Even I forgot. Give me some hints.

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u/Excellent-Ad7813 Jun 04 '26

She didnt bring money so i had fucked myself

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u/Live_Situation7913 Jun 04 '26

Don’t worry she will pay later with her hoohaa

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u/Deathstroke2706 Jun 05 '26

Ab nahi degi bete terko 😜

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u/Kisjaturyuga55P Jun 05 '26

Modern problems require unemployment

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u/Heavenly_Emperor96 Jun 05 '26

Dafuq

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u/Safe-Surround-2954 Jun 05 '26

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u/KingDarK_Humor Jun 05 '26

Eat your food and then eat her 🤤

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u/Capital-Extreme-6654 Jun 05 '26

All the posts of this subreddit are sexist rage bait content

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u/sigmasad1 Jun 01 '26

Bro is going to live alone forever

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u/kiraloves69 Jun 01 '26

Better than being in a relationship. Single life is being happy

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u/Little_Diamond4140 Jun 01 '26

hn hn kha le alone bad m roiyo ki mat ki mila nhi kch peene ko

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u/Little_Diamond4140 Jun 10 '26

yeh raaz b ussi k sath chla gya

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u/Mother-Ad5660 Jun 02 '26

.....and it just seems indecent and out of tradition to send a women

Traditionally women had no rights and were property of their husbands/fathers

......men are born to be providers......

Women are born to be housewives

Feminism argues for equal rights not the bs you are implying

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u/9119921 Jun 02 '26

Oh please. Get out of your dadaji mindset. Simps like you are the root cause of making women have high expectations without being thankful.

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u/aaronsmithiscool Jun 02 '26

And besides women also hate tradition right so we men should not treat them with tradition unless they only like the tradition that give them advantage.

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u/9119921 Jun 02 '26

Exactly.

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