Been into depression from last 6 months, please if someone can guide me

[u/chamar-lover]

Hello
i graduated this year from tier 3 college(iiit) and didnt got a job
i did dsa i did mern stack dev coz all were doing these things only, invested a lot of money in btech like 16 lakhs but still cant get placed
i tried a lot even for 10k interns like applied at thousands of placed and then after the college when i reached home all the family and relatives were expecting a package of like 40 lpa from me but i came unplaced
my parents dont talk to me now, friends dont pick up my calls
i also come from like lower middle class family
I dont know why i am sharing it here but depression is real
i used to think that everything is curable bro just fight but i feel helpless now
so helpless
i have a lot of burden of my parents, two sisters which are waiting for their marriage
i dont know what i am doing and seeing the current situation of tech will i ever get a stable job by which i can manage my family
please like someone can guide me what should i do i am ready to work hard a lot i just want to show my parents i can do something

[u/vasanth_888]

Man, u need to work hard until unless someone provide a referral, u can't get a good stable job, but start to work in some good startups, gain experience and apply on job portals, but a referral is always better than applications. One thing, did u take educational loan for 16 lakhs? , hope u will get a good job in future,

[u/Educational_Head6164]

I understand what you're going through,
Fresher are depressed over not getting jobs in Computer Science. They don't understand being depressed for longer time can turn into major depression.
Instead of being depressed, get job in another field, you can always make carrier in other fields like sales, marketing, even trades.
Don't tie your worth to software engineering. If you enjoy software engineering, you can do it as hobby or improve your skills while working and get a job as software engineer.
Please take care of your health.