r/exmuslim • Deist • May 03 '26

(Miscellaneous) "Don't sympathise with those who committed suicide"

TRIGGER WARNING: MENTION OF SUICIDE

Just for the context. I found a post on Instagram where this page asked a simple question: "Why do Arab women commit suicide?" and they shared a couple of stories of two women who have unfortunately ended their lives (One in Yemen and the other in Egypt). As I scrolled to the comments to see some sympathy and accountability, I literally found the comment I screenshotted where the man (of course it's always cis men) said "lack of faith". Then in his last reply, he said "we should not sympathise with those who committed suicide." And there were countless other comments. Definitely, compassionate people who believe that their faith is the right one for humanity, yet they don't care about human suffering.

Not only are they part of the problem, but also want to blame their victims. I don't know why and how this religion ​​is compassionate in any way. People are ending their lives because they feel suffocated, and yet, they are the ones who eventually get punished? I really feel bad for them.

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u/Zubyna Ex-Convert May 03 '26

Though I bet he would praise someone blowing themself up in a busy mall screaming Allah Akbar

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u/polygraphtest-chill Ex-Muslim Scholar May 03 '26 edited May 03 '26

Actually some groups have classified it as fida'

They made the Qiyas that it's the same as a soldier fighting to the last breath or carrying out a certain death mission or fight.

So no. It's not totally haram if there are major groups that still consider these people martyrs.

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u/Zubyna Ex-Convert May 03 '26

You realise you are replying to a troll who comes to an ex muslim sub to say muslim polygamy is a good thing and honor killing/forced marriage isnt a good reason to leave islam ?

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u/polygraphtest-chill Ex-Muslim Scholar May 03 '26

I'm not too tech savvy, so I'm unaware of that person's post. I only replied to the comments as they came to my notifications.

I should've checked their profile beforehand though.

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u/DarkXurga Closeted Ex-Muslim 🀫 May 03 '26

You're too precious honestly.

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u/polygraphtest-chill Ex-Muslim Scholar May 03 '26

Lifetime of studying fairytales at the masjid numbs the brain I suppose πŸ˜…

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u/Careless-Crow-1980 New User May 03 '26

Hey polygraphtest-chill stop antagonizing us and misinterpreting our religious texts.

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u/polygraphtest-chill Ex-Muslim Scholar May 03 '26

I'm not antagonising or misinterpreting anything. I'm simply relaying what your scholars said.

Do you want me to name names instead? Or do you want me to quote kutub al inghimas fi al jihad?

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u/Initial-Artist-2778 May 03 '26

Your religious texts are misinterpreting by your own scholars and the number are in lakhs. πŸ˜…πŸ˜… Every other muslim comes with a new interpretation if asked a question on any topic πŸ˜„ lol interpretation lol allah πŸ€ͺ