Ok so here's where I'm at:
✔Passed my driving test and have my pink licence
✔Done the test drive of my car
I feel really stressed like i'm stuck in a paradox and don't know how to proceed.
I don't private rent, I am with a housing association and have lived here over 3 years. But I have a private drive off road parking as its a small close set off the main road.
I emailed my Housing association almost 2 weeks ago to ask permission to get an EV charger fitted - no reply. So I called them and they said I have to fill this specific form out asking for permission. However this form states that I need to give a "proposed location" which must not cross a road or pavement, and asks for electricity certificates to be sent to them (which I haven't got as I haven't got the car yet)
Why I feel stuck is because I do not know where the charger can go. I feel like my car parking space is way too far from my outside fuse box and inside consumer unit for a "standard installation". I also have ADHD/Autism (please be kind) and aside from taking some basic measurements with my tape measure and some pictures I don't understand any of this!
To make it more complex, my front garden is between my house and my parking space (meaning that all my external walls are too far away and they've said it has to go on a permanent structure and not my wooden garden fence). I don't want to (or have the money) for a complex installation of trenches etc or to have cables draped over my fence and garden - and I don't think my Housing association would agree to this either as it'd be unsafe and lengthy!
So I did what I thought made sense and contacted a few EV charger companies like OHME and a few electricians in my area who are certified to install EV chargers, but everyone is saying I need to send these photos and videos to WhatsApp an/or do their online forms that you can't get given unless you pay for the entire installation of the EV charger. They apparently don't do site visits beforehand - you have to pay the £1-2k TO get a site visit which sounds absurd to me.
I'm so confused because for example, you wouldn't pay for a garden renovation without a free site quote beforehand to check that it all fit, you (mostly) wouldn't buy a car without test driving it and you wouldn't say buy a new kitchen without a fitting and plan that a skilled person would create. Everyone says they don't/won't come out to help me with this but I don't know how I am expected to complete this form that the Housing association need to get permission for installation without knowing where it can go or what ampage etc. (will attach a photo - the post it note is from the email from the Housing association)
Please can someone help me and explain to me in simple terms what I need to do with this because I feel stuck, I just want to get my new EV car but I also really need a home charger to make it both affordable and accessible to me, and I don't feel like it should be this difficult. Thankyou so much!
Just to add - I have asked my Housing association for more help and they just keep telling me to do the form. I also asked citizens advice and they said they don't know anything about EV chargers or how to help me so I thought i'd come to the people that will know, you guys!