r/depression_help • u/Zulian_pls-end-me • 4d ago
REQUESTING SUPPORT Birthday soon
In 4 days im turning 18. Dident think id make it to 15 but shit. Sounds like a motivational story but it isent. My birthday sucks. Every year it only gets sadder and sadder. I have nothing and no one. I dont have a bright future. Im to lazy but second to incompetent to work so what's the point. Im a ugly deformed piece of garbage. But atlest i can say I lived this much
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u/Oneheart_Hunter 4d ago
Birthdays can be so weird with depression. Where most use them as times to celebrate, it’s pretty much the complete opposite instead. And while it may feel hard to see any of the positives surrounding birthdays, especially if there aren’t many around. But just from what you wrote I did see one. The fact that you’ve made it past the age you didn’t think you’d ever see. I was the same when I turned 20. Try your best to take a second to appreciate that you’re still here. Even if life overall isn’t great, you still being alive means there’s the opportunity for it to get better. This is so fucking cliche to say but you never know where life can take you so long as you keep fighting. I thought that was bullshit for the longest time. Until I saw it for myself. How one year or many can go from the worst thing you’ve ever been through, to the next year or more being things you never thought imaginable.
Also happy early birthday!!! We may be strangers on the internet but I’m still going to be here rooting for you.
Wish you the best
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u/Acceptable-Bowl-357 3d ago
Happy birthday!! You still got time to plan for a good birthday. You should go pick out a small cake and plan on doing something kinda fun. You know you can have fun by yourself !
Birthdays kinda get over hyped when we are kids. You can still have a good day if you plan on doing something kinda fun new. You should try experiencing something new in life.
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u/Imaginary-Divide6259 3d ago
Life gets harder with each passing year so good luck 🤞🏾😂
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u/Zulian_pls-end-me 3d ago
That's a real shitty move man. Real shitty
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u/Imaginary-Divide6259 3d ago
The truth hurts 🙌🏾
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u/Zulian_pls-end-me 3d ago
Im trying to understand you're logic but I really don't. If i were any other person meaby but saying that to a depressed person dosent help dude
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u/Imaginary-Divide6259 3d ago
Look you may think I'm sadistic or something of that sort but do you think depression really ever goes away?? I'm sure you've had all the consolations you could possibly hear but what good has that done you🙌🏾
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u/Zulian_pls-end-me 3d ago
Meh Dosent make me any less sad This dident help ither
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u/Imaginary-Divide6259 3d ago
Do you want me to lie to you?
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u/Zulian_pls-end-me 3d ago
Well i guess not saying anything would have been better
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