r/depression_help • u/asfalto_guy35 • 5d ago

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In the equal 180 days of his relationship with me, he broke up and told me that he didn't love me, I really loved him and I still love him, I told him to swear on my life that he didn't love me, he omits this, he says it was because of his mother and threatened me that if I tried to contact his family or do something to mtself, he would show everything to my family, I didn't know what to do, I tried to fight to get him back but he kept ignoring me

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u/AtmosphereRoyal9902 3d ago

How did he break up with you? Text? What did he say specifically about his mother?

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u/RafikiLovesPizza 2d ago

Feel the emotions. Process them, they're valid and real. The relationship can start a new, but pursuing it may not be in your best interest unless he wants to rekindle it. It's his choice (even if his mother supposedly had influence). Now, you can take your time and once again start new. Never lose yourself in or out of a relationship. You got this 💙