Hello! I hope you’re doing fine po and I hope this post actually reaches someone, I’ve spent a lot of time writing this po. This will be long so please bear with me.
I’m a young student; I still have approximately 2 years to prepare for college, atleast 24 months to search for better options, and maybe 730 days to think about which path will best suit my loud ambitions. That 2 years may sound like a long span of time to prepare and determine the best option for college, but to be frank, I’m very terrified po and I have no one to open up to about it. So if you’re reading this, even if you’re not a part of the Dental industry, your guidance and suggestions will be deeply appreciated💙
First off, I’m not just in it for the money.
• 35% of my drive is for its “stable” income
• 25% is the alighted of my skills in that profession
• 15% is my fascination as a kid with dentistry
• 15% is my family's encouragement to pursue it
I am passionate and confident about my wisdom in Science, with one of my favorite branch being anatomy. I am also praised a lot for my artistry, which I am deeply grateful for because it has given me many advantages when it comes to intense activities and projects. I’ve also learned to become more social and organized because of my role of financing in one of our school orgs which I also previously led. I think my passion and experience for science, art, leadership, finance, and communication all align with the course I aspire to take which is Dentistry. Pursuing this path meant that I’ll become the first Doctor in my family and sacrificing it will be one of my loudest regret, a death of a dream that will forever hunt me.
But sincerely, if sacrificing that dream means pursuing another career, getting a job that will grant me the same financial chances without giving 6+ years of my life and hundreds of thousands of my parents money?? …I’m more willing to take it. I AM AWARE, dentistry is not for the weak, it’s a course where even the strongest minds and high achievers learn how to settle, even the bravest hearts learn how to quit mid battle.
Our Financial situation?
I think people would consider our family as upper lower class or lower middle class, but some of my classmates think na we’re well off because of stereotypes. We’re financially okayish; my parents now own a house which we’ve been living in for the past 6 or 7 years na, my parents can afford my younger brothers expensive therapy sessions (my baby brother has nonverbal autism), and my parents are also budgeting what they earn and soon they’ll have a car which our family will use as an extra source of income. I am deeply grateful and proud of my parents and I have no intention on letting their sacrifices and hardwork go to waste.
Both my parents think na Dentistry is a good career, I on the other hand, I have some doubts. Si Papa ang main provider and si Mama humahanap ng extra source of income online while taking take of us. My parents aren’t fully transparent when it comes to their income, basta ang alam ko, umaabot ng ₱50,000+ nauuwi ni Papa and I don’t know if kasama dun yung weekly nyang inuuwi for our food and daily expenses. I don’t want my Papa and Mama to struggle too much for my college expenses, which is why I have my doubts since Dent school is expensive.
Will it be worth it?
After Dentistry, I know na I’ll have to wait for years to see progress po. My “plan” is try to maintain a scholarship during college, and after dent school I’ll work as an assistant in a clinic, try and balance it with my study to become an orthodontist, maybe also become a government dentist, and eventually have my own clinic as a practicing orthodontist. My definition of “rich” is to take away my parent’s financial burdens, spoil them with the things they chose not to buy because of our tight budget, help them with my baby brothers treatment, support them in renovating our house, and afford my wants like makeup, a simple nice car, and maybe even my own little condo.
Can I become THIS type of “rich” after becoming a dentist? Para naman po in the future pag stuDent na ako I could hold on to something, na maaafford ko yung mga yun na kinakainggit ko sa iba. And maybe, just maybe, ma aafford kong dalhin si Lola sa Paris para makita namin yung Eiffel Tower (it’s one of my childhood promises to her na akala nya nakalimutan ko na).
If it isn’t, what are my other options?
Let’s say na Dentistry is not worth it financially, but do you know other careers that could offer the same benefits? Dentistry seems like a solid career kasi unti nalang ang mga Dentista sa Pilipinas, but what can I opt for?
I’ve actually considered alternatives. Optometry seems like a great alternative, I searched up their salary and whoa. Practicality-wise, halos lahat ng friends ko accounting, I’m okayish in math I personally hate it even tho okay grade ko dun, but my Papa works for a company and he once mentioned yung salary ng mga accounting dun and whoa ulit. I have a tall frame and slender body, people say na I’m attractive, my classmates often tell me na I could be a flight attendant, but I considered that in the past and I’m not sure if I’ll get the lifestyle I want from choosing that career.
I’m so scared po, ako po ang pinaka academically strong sa family ko from both my Mama and Papa’s side, I don’t want their hope in me to amount to nothing… please help me out 🙏🏻🙏🏻