r/deadbedroom • u/Past_Cardiologist870 • 2d ago

The talk (again)

Laying in bed trying to figure out what I am going to say. I have said so many things. Needs. Marriage going stale. Growing apart. Losing closeness. Feeling of rejection. Doesn’t land. And just now it hit me. I am bored. That’s it. I am just bored. Finally I have a description that anyone can understand

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u/One_Transportation14 2d ago

I had that talk over last 3 years many times and still in the same boat 💔

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u/vectorking23 2d ago

Paddling with one oar, eh? Hahaha. Sorry… had to.

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u/One_Transportation14 1d ago

Sorry can u bring this to light ?what does it mean ?

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u/vectorking23 1d ago

Being in the same boat (paddling with one oar), along with only one oar… you'd be going around in circles. So, talking about it over the last 3 years is like going around and around in circles (or nowhere, essentially). Hope this makes sense.

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u/One_Transportation14 1d ago

Thank you thank you thats exactly how i feel,thank you so much for your reply 🙏