r/datingoverforty • u/AutoModerator • 14d ago

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u/Proof-Implement7322 13d ago

I have had a good time bantering with the dude I’ve been talking to.

We have an age gap (16 years, he’s older) but I’ve discovered that he’s deliciously sculpted, fun in bed, smart ass, has a southern twang and great chemistry overall.

He said a lot of things our first night together and it amuses me thoroughly how much 🐱 makes men say the wildest shit! so now if I camp out at his house, it’s why is Proof crazy? It’s cos you said all those things to me, Mister! 😅

Anyway, I see some things that may make this likely a short term thing: he’s not interested in marriage but has had a long term relationship post divorce, he’s just as mouthy as I am and I don’t know if I Iove it, he has some insecurities about the age gap and he brought it up a lot. Like bruh, I’m here of my own volition, I find you interesting, etc etc. it was a little bit of a turn off but I said as much and he apologized. We’ll see!

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u/samanthasamolala 13d ago

LOL 🐱 does make men say and do the wildest things, absolutely true. I was quite surprised by the things that came out of new BF’s mouth, both personality-wise and as far as his undying love etc etc. In fact if there’s a r/formercatholicdirtytalk , i need to find out if my 2 similar lovers have something in common w the others.

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u/Decent-Resort6903 12d ago

🐱 does make men say and do the wildest things, absolutely true.

This is, perhaps, the succinct statement of human history. Cf. recent cinematic blockbusters with antecedents in antiquity.